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oh man maybe i should use a stool softener...i am just scared, i think. 

what can i take? i don't want to be like on the toilet ALL THE TIME...but i should probably poop before i talk to my midwife tomorrow. haha. she will not be impressed if i don't!


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no problem :)

alright i'm officially on the other side.

and terrified to poop.

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This is me every time! I'm also in that phase right now.




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i sent derek to the store to get stool softeners..i am too scared otherwise!


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I didn't have poop issues with the first time I went but susequently I've had some issues.  I really tried today to up my water intake.  I wasn't having issues at the end of pregnancy but I was drinking a TON of water to try and keep my amniotic fluid level up.  I guess with all the nursing, I need to still continue with the 8+ cups of water per day.

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my issues were all mental...i had just psyched myself out too much. 

thank god for stool softeners...it was apparently just what i needed. *phew*

now the midwife won't kick my @$$.

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Hi, everyone!

 

The nursing is going really well for us *touch wood*.  He latches well, I have had some nipple tenderness but no chapping or cracking, and we're through the engorgement now.  He's also gaining weight already.  He had surpassed his birth weight at our day 5 pediatrician check-up, and every day he looks plumper to me.

 

Our problem is that his days and nights are reversed, and I don't know how to fix that.  He'll happily sleep for 3-5 hours during the day, and then he's up every 2 hours during the night.  Last night he had a really good feeding at midnight, but then proceeded to fuss for the next 3.5 hours.  I fed him again at 2 am out of desperation, thinking he might be hungry, but he wasn't really that hungry. He ate sort of lazily, and then continued to fuss for another 1.5 hours.  We were at our wits end.  Every time we stopped rocking and bouncing him, he'd break out into a full-blown wail of outrage.  Out of desperation we finally put a pacifier in his mouth, and he fell asleep around 3:30 am sucking on the pacifier.  I think it might have been gas, but I have no idea.  This is my first child, I've only been a mom for a week+, what do I know?  

 

But I do know if we don't start to get more sleep at night, he's going to have two parents on the verge of insanity. What can we do to get him to sleep for 3-4 hours during the night, instead of the day??


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are you guys co-sleeping? tha'ts really my only advice. 

nursing is going really well over here too! it helps to have done it for 4 years before i think :P 
definitely a bit engorged but it is evening out and i have some amazing locally made nipple salve that is working wonders. 

little miss Z is a healthy eater...she's 3 days old and has had probably 10 poops and at least 7-10 wet diapers. she's definitely going to be a chunky kid just like her brother was!


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Sigh.  I wish experience always trumped issues...over 5 years breastfeeding and 2 years as a LLL leader to boot, but this kiddo has me a little stumped all the same :(  She is currently filling her diaper with poop for the 3rd time today, and has only had 5 ounces of pumped milk so far (and about 10 ounces total yesterday), so I am crossing my fingers that that's a good sign she's taking more from the breast...today is 2 weeks since we started pumping and finger feeding.  We head back to the midwife's office tomorrow to see if she's gained since last week (she weighed a pound under birth weight, on a different scale, on day 12...after starting to regain she apparently lost again, though I'm hoping it was just a scale calibration issue).

 

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my issues were all mental...i had just psyched myself out too much.

thank god for stool softeners...it was apparently just what i needed. *phew*

now the midwife won't kick my @$$.

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Maybe I have a mental block then smile.gif probably due to pooping after my first.

Nursing is going well so far here. Still waiting on my milk to come in which I'm guessing will happen tonight or tomorrow.
I think I overdid it today...amazing as I did not do very much, but must've just been on my feet more than I should've. I'm laying down now.

I second the co sleeping and I don't think a paci us bad if it works. All my kids have been paci lovers...we'll see if B is.


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I'm very fortunate to have a good milk supply and a good little nurser. Agent hit his first growth spurt and has been feeding every hour or less since 3am this morning. Not awesome, but I've heard that once the feeding frenzy ends he'll sleep through the night for a few days, which would be fabulous. He's only ever really fussy when he's gassy, so I've been trying a mixture of co-sleeping with him on my chest when he's going through a gassy fit and having in a camping crib at the side of the bed for the rest of the time. With the gas, he passes it much better lying on his stomach with me rubbing his back. He uses my nipple as a pacifier and then nurses half of the time, which I'm guessing stimulates his digestive system, making the gas pass faster.

 

He's such a little trouper though, each day he tries to work through his gas himself and only cries when he's really stuck. He sounds like a little monster grunting through his gas and wiggling around. He manages to wiggle his way out of every swaddle we've tried. He's a baby hoodini. I'm super lucky that he's fairly easy compared to a lot of babies.

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Hi, everyone!

 

The nursing is going really well for us *touch wood*.  He latches well, I have had some nipple tenderness but no chapping or cracking, and we're through the engorgement now.  He's also gaining weight already.  He had surpassed his birth weight at our day 5 pediatrician check-up, and every day he looks plumper to me.

 

Our problem is that his days and nights are reversed, and I don't know how to fix that.  He'll happily sleep for 3-5 hours during the day, and then he's up every 2 hours during the night.  Last night he had a really good feeding at midnight, but then proceeded to fuss for the next 3.5 hours.  I fed him again at 2 am out of desperation, thinking he might be hungry, but he wasn't really that hungry. He ate sort of lazily, and then continued to fuss for another 1.5 hours.  We were at our wits end.  Every time we stopped rocking and bouncing him, he'd break out into a full-blown wail of outrage.  Out of desperation we finally put a pacifier in his mouth, and he fell asleep around 3:30 am sucking on the pacifier.  I think it might have been gas, but I have no idea.  This is my first child, I've only been a mom for a week+, what do I know?  

 

But I do know if we don't start to get more sleep at night, he's going to have two parents on the verge of insanity. What can we do to get him to sleep for 3-4 hours during the night, instead of the day??



Are you burping him?  I realize in retrospect I didnt burp my first enough.  Sometimes Ill burp my LO midfeed this time.  We are dealing with oversupply issues tho.  Are you switching breasts during a feed?  If so, he could be getting too much foremilk.  Try leaving him on the same breast, if he seems hungry again an hour later, give him the breast he just fed on.  If you think it's gas try the simethicone/ mylicon drops.  They are very safe.  Have you tried swaddling?

 

PS.. nothing at all wrong with using a paci if he likes it.  Ive bought 5 different kinds and DD2 wont take one. My first wouldnt either.

 

Try to keep him up for a couple hours before bed.  Get him naked, turn all the lights on, give him a sponge bath.. etc  During the day, open all the blinds/curtains.. dont tiptoe around being quiet when he is sleeping...

 

Goodluck.. nothing prepares you for the level of sleep deprivation you experience with your first, IMO.  The only solace is it does pass. ((hug))

 

 

 

bluepetals, are you sure babe doesnt have a posterior tongue tie?  Much harder to dx.. but sounds alot like what we experienced w/ DD1.

 

afm,

Doing good, babe is sleeping 3-4 hour stretches at night the last few nights.. last night we got one 5 hr, but then a 2 hr ;)..  Im dealing with oversupply.. at first I thought it might be lactose intolerance, because I was already block feeding in 3-4 hour increments, but now that ive upped it to 12 hrs (holy oversupply!!!) there is such a huge difference in her gassiness and fussing, she is also doing moderate poops instead of lots of explosive watery ones.. they have always stayed yellow and curdy though, no mucus or green.  I have to pump off 3ish oz when I switch breasts and Im hoping I can start cutting that soon so we can address the root issue.  Im debating on taking antihistimines at night to try and bring it down.  With DD1 it took 5 weeks to get her to the breast, 3 with the sns, syringe feeding and bottles, then 2 with a nipple sheild.  I pumped atleast double what she ate.. massive oversupply.  Hope this time it is easier to tame.. it took us till amost 4 months to regulate last time.

 

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panic / I forgot about burping!!! I forgot about everything!!! Aughhhh, what am I doing???I'm not prepared to do this again!!!   \panic


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Ha! I feel the SAME way, Evergreen! Burping, and block feeding, and fore milk/hind milk, and sleeping, and swaddling, and...and...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Maybe THAT'S why the baby hasn't been born yet--he/she knows I totally have no idea what I'm doing. 

 

 


 
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MamaChef- sounds like your oversupply issues are even more killer than my own.  I am block feeding for about 2 hours and probably need to up that but then I would have to pump a lot and my body is super sensitive to the pump and just goes into overdrive. I also have a very forceful/overactive letdown so that just contributes to the issue. DD1 had vicious "oversupply colic" and it took me so long to resolve it.  With DD2, I had done enough reading and started off with not overpumping, block feeding and nursing her in a mostly reclined position- spraying the first let down into a burp cloth.  Both DD1 and DD2 suffered a lot of reflux type symptoms because of my oversupply so I'm hoping to avoid that this time.  Arya seems to stop when he is full and with DD2 she just loved to comfort nurse so much that she would nurse and nurse until she pretty much threw up.  So... it's one day at a time as I try and tame my supply.  I just had to pump because Arya decided to take a long nap and I am in pain from the swelling.

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Officially joining the other side! It feels so great to be here! We're home and enjoying the newborn lovies! I am loving my older kids' response to him too!

 

I'll probably be more active after the holiday weekend. DH is home and we are thoroughly enjoying our family time as a family of 5!!


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Congratulations Becca!  We are now a family of 5 as well and couldn't be happier.  Congrats on your VBAC!!  My two daughters are so enamored with their baby brother it's unreal.  My 6.5 yr old bounces out of bed at 6am to come snuggle with him.  Today she was up at 5am.  I think he is going to be smothered by his two older sisters- LOL

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bluepetals, are you sure babe doesnt have a posterior tongue tie?  Much harder to dx.. but sounds alot like what we experienced w/ DD1.

 

afm,

Doing good, babe is sleeping 3-4 hour stretches at night the last few nights.. last night we got one 5 hr, but then a 2 hr ;)..  Im dealing with oversupply.. at first I thought it might be lactose intolerance, because I was already block feeding in 3-4 hour increments, but now that ive upped it to 12 hrs (holy oversupply!!!) there is such a huge difference in her gassiness and fussing, she is also doing moderate poops instead of lots of explosive watery ones.. they have always stayed yellow and curdy though, no mucus or green.  I have to pump off 3ish oz when I switch breasts and Im hoping I can start cutting that soon so we can address the root issue.  Im debating on taking antihistimines at night to try and bring it down.  With DD1 it took 5 weeks to get her to the breast, 3 with the sns, syringe feeding and bottles, then 2 with a nipple sheild.  I pumped atleast double what she ate.. massive oversupply.  Hope this time it is easier to tame.. it took us till amost 4 months to regulate last time.

 


Nope, I'm not sure she doesn't have a posterior tie.  Definitely she is displaying pretty much every symptom, so this possibility has been foremost in our minds the last week or so.  My midwife is of the opinion that she will grow into things (as she has been - we have made great strides in the last week, but we're not there yet!), that she might have a little or this or that, but overall there are no giant red flag challenges so give it time and things will continue to improve.  I saw our regional professional liaison person with LLL today and she thinks A's frenulum is a bit tight and what can it hurt to clip it and see if it helps (she also says she feels a slight bubble palate, which isn't helping things either...also, A's lower jaw is maybe a little receded.  So possibly we are dealing with a trifecta of challenges to holding on to a nice deep latch!).  I am leaning toward getting it clipped, at least then we can say we tried.  On the bright side, A gained 12 ounces since last Wednesday!  So she is getting lots of milk, and we'll keep doing what we're doing (and maybe do the clip, too) and hopefully things will get better and better *fingers crossed*

 

Your story about the pumping and resulting oversupply has me worried - in addition to what Aibhlinn gets at breast (NO idea how much, but she's taking less pumped milk lately so I'm guessing a decent amount), I am pumping around 30 ounces a day (27.5 yesterday, a good nursing day :P), more if it's a bad nursing day.  I probably should cut back but given her lousy latch, I am worried that without the pump, we might not stimulate such great production.  But eek, FOUR months to regulate?  Crap.  Ah well, if that happens i will console myself by making someone else very happy with a giant milk donation :P

 

Thanks for sharing your experience, MamaChef.  It's incredibly encouraging to hear about people who've been through the same thing and were still nursing after all was said and done.  The "what if she never nurses" thing has haunted me, though that little voice in my head is getting quieter every day :)

 

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Ha! I feel the SAME way, Evergreen! Burping, and block feeding, and fore milk/hind milk, and sleeping, and swaddling, and...and...!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Maybe THAT'S why the baby hasn't been born yet--he/she knows I totally have no idea what I'm doing. 

 

 



Right?? Think maybe you just tipped me off to my subconscious block! "Oh yeah... I'm freaking CLUELESS!!"

 

I keep telling myself it could not be any crazier than it was with my dd - not just that she was our firstborn, but in retrospect I think she had some chiro issues and at the time I had never gone to a chiro and I had no idea they also worked with children. She had raging latch/positional issues with breastfeeding, didn't like to cuddle, only had weekly bowel movements (despite being breastfed and gaining just enough weight) that clearly were more related to tension than anything - she wasn't at all constipated, screamed for roughly 6-12 hours starting around 3 pm (and I mean *screamed* - no mere newborn outrage here) and I was beyond clueless, with the added bonus of having a doctor that didn't know natural living from his ass. He just kept telling me it was all normal and I was the weirdo, basically. She wouldn't co-sleep either - I think also due to her positional pain situation. I didn't realize any of this at the time... just felt like a failure who had given birth to an alien! And oh yeah, at the time, dh thought breastfeeding was ridiculous. No support. Sigh....

 

I may BE freaking clueless, but just typing all that out reminds we're both totally different people now, surrounded by support and resources. AND dd came rather beautifully through it all, despite what felt like (and really was, I just didn't even know enough to know that then!) my raging ineptness so..

 

Deep breaths... lots of slow deep breaths... :)


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Hey everyone! Is anyone else experiencing a painful letdown? I feel like sharp stabbing pains in my nipple everytime I have a letdown, I think it's just a forceful letdown, but its much more painful than I remember with my son. I don't feel like there's mastitis, or clogged ducts or anything, just very forceful, painful letdown. DD keeps up with it though, so that's good. DD is sleeping in 5-6 hour stretches at night and goes every 2-4 hours for nursing during the day. She is also not too keen on comfort nursing yet, and prefers the paci (soothie brand, only!) for comfort..I tried to comfort nurse her but she'd eat too much and throw up. We'll see if anything changes. DS was a big comfort nurser and was never into the paci from the beginning, so this is an adjustment for me, not nursing nearly as much as I did with DS.


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Hey everyone! Is anyone else experiencing a painful letdown? I feel like sharp stabbing pains in my nipple everytime I have a letdown, I think it's just a forceful letdown, but its much more painful than I remember with my son. I don't feel like there's mastitis, or clogged ducts or anything, just very forceful, painful letdown. DD keeps up with it though, so that's good. DD is sleeping in 5-6 hour stretches at night and goes every 2-4 hours for nursing during the day. She is also not too keen on comfort nursing yet, and prefers the paci (soothie brand, only!) for comfort..I tried to comfort nurse her but she'd eat too much and throw up. We'll see if anything changes. DS was a big comfort nurser and was never into the paci from the beginning, so this is an adjustment for me, not nursing nearly as much as I did with DS.



Well I havent' had this one yet....but I remember that sensation with all my other babies. It's all good and should regulate itself. I remember is being less stabby feeling if I nursed after a warm shower. It will pass though.

 

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my letdowns with DS were definitely painful - the worst was right when I got pregnant though! I got used to it, I guess.

I am trying to figure out how NOT to have an oversupply this time (I had oversupply/letdown issues with DS, which made bfing a bit of a struggle for the first 3 months - he was totally breast averse and I had to 'trick' him into nursing, basically, it was a nightmare) I did block feed to fix it, and it got better, but I think he was too traumatized I guess for that to help? not sure.

I am going through engorgement right now, I guess so its reminding me of oversupply - with DS the engorgement kind of never went away until I did 6 hour blocks. And right now I'm STILL nursing DS, and he's kind of upped his intake a bit, so I'm really worried I'm stimulating too much milk production I guess. My boobs are so big an almost-2 year old can't even drain one in 20 min! its ridiculous.


her poos though still look okay, no green and frothy, and she isn't actually all that gassy yet, so hoping maybe she's not as sensitive as DS was. I'm also already avoiding dairy, which he was sensitive to, so maybe that's helping.


I'm just not sure how to block feed with two nursers?! with one who can have a lot at once but is (hopefully!!!) not nursing as often. Right now though he is nursing almost as much as her, I'm guessing (hoping!) its a transitional thing - its just seeing her nurse that does it, etc.

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How is everyone doing?  I hope challenges are resolving...

 

We are doing so much better!  Some kind of light went on for Aibhlinn around this past Monday/Tuesday.  She had a "feed me feed me!!" night on Monday when she just couldn't seem to get enough and was really late going to sleep for the night as a result (growth spurt, maybe) - I nursed and nursed her until finally around 11 pm we decided to give her some pumped milk (normally I nursed her until she would not nurse anymore, but my boobs were soft and nipples sore).  She ate from the boob during her wakes that night and again in the morning, until having another little flip out in the late morning and I succumbed again and gave her 2 ounces of pumped milk.  That was it, after that for whatever reason she didn't complain anymore and since she seemed happy, we haven't offered another ounce from the finger.  She was weighed Friday and is up 11.5 ounces in a week, so between that and her gulping at the breast and the incredible volume of poop she is producing, she is obviously getting tons of milk now! Weaning off the pump now, I was already down to twice a day so I reduced it again to once and now I am only pumping if my boobs are so full I need to relieve the pressure a bit.

 

MamaChef, I am still not sure about the posterior tie.  Nobody here seems particularly proficient in identifying them - I saw a doctor who said she does not have a tie because no web under her tongue or heart shaped tip.  I got conflicting opinions on whether it was affecting suck (LLL versus my midwife, although the day we saw the LLL person, the baby was DONE with being out and around strangers and wouldn't even suck well at the finger!).  Anyway, thankfully it's a moot point but it would still be interesting to know if that was a factor in her steep learning curve.  Did you have your DD1's posterior tie clipped? 

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Baby Zephyra has a pretty profound tongue tie and her tongue is short enough that she can't even get it over her gumline. We're doing some sucking exercises, lots of sticking our tongues out at her, and will be seeing a doc soon to talk about a clip. Breastfeeding hurts quite a bit as a result, and I'm getting blistery, but my supply is HUUUUUGE so I'm not too worried about her not stimulating me enough at this point. In fact, her tongue is far enough down that she can't control the flow very well and chokes badly every time she nurses. Lots and lots of air being swallowed, so she has a pretty sour stomach right now. Poor little babe. I'm really glad this is my fourth time around and that I have the breastfeeding education (I'm a breastfeeding counselor), because without it I might have switched to formula already and not known to get in touch with LLL during the first 24 hours when I first noticed a problem!

 

LLL is a godsend! Call yours!!! Even though I'm a leader applicant, it's hard to dx yourself and I happily got a list of tips and tricks to reduce pain and problems while we deal with the tie.

 

Due to the medication I was on through pregnancy, we're keeping an eye on her for neonatal abstinence syndrome (withdrawal), but she shows zero signs of it... which is kind of what we expected. My dose is 1/4 of what most people take. Still we have to keep a close watch for her first 7 days until we're in the clear. She's on day 3 now which is when the first symptoms would show up, if she had it... and so far we haven't noticed anything out of the ordinary for a newborn. :)  That's yet another big reason why I'm so, so, so glad we gave birth at home. Our hospital's policy for my medication is to take baby away from mom immediately after birth and lock them in a dark room with no stimulation, and no contact, for seven days while mom is discharged. SEVEN DAYS!! How horrible is that?! They treat you like a heroin addict (not that I think people who have drug addictions deserve to be treated like that, either), it's awful. I can't even imagine doing that to my brand new girl... especially since that treatment is contraindicated by current research (both for dosage, and just for common sense: rooming in with mom and breastfeeding = happier, healthier baby!!!).

 

Other than that I think we're pretty clear. She's a rather fussy newborn, largely because of all the breastfeeding issues, but that's slowly getting better as she and I adjust. She sleeps in two hour stretches at night and as long as she stays close to my breast she's barely up between that except to latch on and fall back to sleep again.


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Agent is a little gassy, but nothing too extreme. I just can't stand to see him sad, so we've talked to our pediatrician about the homeopathic options available. We already have him on probiotics that I give him in his one nightly pumped bottle that my husband feeds him. But we've started giving him a little bit of camomile tea in a bottle (steeped from the actual flowers) to help his belly. The Dr. said that 1 - 2 oz a day would help him out. If that doesn't work, there is another herbal formula we can try out. I've just started avoiding dairy, so we'll see if that does anything. Mostly he tries to grunt through it on his own, but still makes me sad for him.

 

He's been growing super fast. He's one month old tomorrow and he went up from 6 lbs at birth, down to 5 lbs 11oz in the hospital and up to 8 lbs 4 oz on Friday!

 

 

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I started using gripe water and that seems to help some with the gas. My girl gets pretty bad gas because of the nipple shields but whenever I try not to use them - OUCH! She just won't open her mouth very wide at all, no matter what and can't get a good latch still. Maybe one day she'll get it or I'll just have to use the nipple shields for the duration like I had to with my first. Oh well.
 

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Agent is a little gassy, but nothing too extreme. I just can't stand to see him sad, so we've talked to our pediatrician about the homeopathic options available. We already have him on probiotics that I give him in his one nightly pumped bottle that my husband feeds him. But we've started giving him a little bit of camomile tea in a bottle (steeped from the actual flowers) to help his belly. The Dr. said that 1 - 2 oz a day would help him out. If that doesn't work, there is another herbal formula we can try out. I've just started avoiding dairy, so we'll see if that does anything. Mostly he tries to grunt through it on his own, but still makes me sad for him.

 

He's been growing super fast. He's one month old tomorrow and he went up from 6 lbs at birth, down to 5 lbs 11oz in the hospital and up to 8 lbs 4 oz on Friday!

 

 



 


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Things are going really well over here for Little Louisa and the rest of the fam. We're one week out, and my perineum is still sore from the small tear--I recall feeling better sooner with DD1, but maybe I'm recalling incorrectly! 

 

Louisa was pretty fussy the first few days, like she just wasn't happy in her own skin. My midwives mentioned a chiropractic adjustment while they were doing her newborn exam--so we took her to see a really awesome, baby-knowledgeable chiro on Day 4. Holy Happy Baby Batman! She turned into a completely happy baby during the adjustment and has been so mellow and relaxed since. Before she would fuss whenever she was awake and not nursing and now she just hangs out and takes everything in. It's so awesome. I've always been a big fan of chiropractic care, but now I'm a huge believer in it's benefits for young babies. So, for anyone with fussy/colic-y/non-latching babies or even plain ol' regular babies without any visible issues, I really recommend going to a chiropractor who is experienced with babies and children. The adjustment is so gentle and relaxing, not at all the bone cracking stuff you might be imagining. 

 

This little mama really takes it all to the extreme. When she sleeps, she REALLY sleeps. When she's awake, she's REALLY awake. When she nurses, she REALLY nurses. I never noticed my first two babies have such distinct rhythms so early on. Louisa has slept all night long three nights in a row--nursing only once or twice and has a few good chunks of alert, awake time. I don't know what to do with a baby who sleeps at night and it kind of freaks me out. Haha! 


 
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My little girl's been pretty predictable overall. Sleeps good at night for her age too. I'm loving it! Thank God too with have 3 little kiddos.


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Here's my experience "on the other side" with my 1-month old son - by way of his first music video - take a look if you need some comic relief from the crying!

 

 

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well, can I just say that my recovery has been MUCH better than it was with DS. I stopped bleeding a week ago, and DH and I DTD last night for the first time. Wow what a difference than last time. I remember being in pain from DTD until DS was 6 months old. I just thought that was normal! I felt completely back to normal. It helps that I had no tearing this time. With DS, I had 3rd degree tears inside and recovery took forever! overall so far this pregnancy, childbirth, recovery and infancy has been a complete 180 than with DS. DD is even a great sleeper!


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