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#1 of 75 Old 05-10-2011, 12:18 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Deleted - because some people can't let a grieving mother find support on the internet without making truly uninformed judgments about her choices.

The doctors discussing this thread on another website would prefer to speculate, circulate incorrect and inaccurate information about the situation and insult my intelligence whilst calling me a murderer, liar, and criminal, therefore I have removed the story of my baby girl and her still birth.

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I have no words, only that my heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss. candle.gif

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oh, judy, i can't even begin to imagine what you and dp are going through.  all i can do is send hug.gif

 

take care and be kind to yourself.

 

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How heartbreaking.  I'm so, so sorry for your loss.  

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I am so terribly sorry - there are no words for this. You and your dp are in my thoughts.

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I'm so very sorry for your loss.  You are in my thoughts.  candle.gif


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I'm so sorry for your loss.  candle.gif


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I'm very sorry for your loss. :( 


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My extreme condolences and sorrow for your loss. I can only send prayers to you for your loss and your angel in heaven.

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I am so sorry for your loss. Love and condolences. hug.gif


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oh mama. what a horrible shock. my heart is with you and your partner. i send you love and light. strength and peace.


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I am so very sorry for your loss.


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I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your baby girl. From your description, she sounds just beautiful; and I'm so glad that you got some pictures of your sweet daughter.

I also want to invite you here, where there are many of us, unfortunately, who have experienced a loss and can support you during this terribly difficult time. You are welcome if and when you're ready. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your husband as you adjust to this new world. Nurture yourselves. hug2.gif

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I am so sorry for your loss. candle.gif


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ohhhhhhh mama. 

this has just made me realize that everything i am going through right now is nothing compared to what you guys are going through.

i am so, so sorry. my heart is broken for you. heartbeat.gif i honestly don't even know what to say.


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So sorry for the loss of your beautiful girl candle.gif


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oh, judy, i can't even begin to imagine what you and dp are going through.  all i can do is send hug.gif

 

take care and be kind to yourself.

 

thinking of you.


I am so incredibly sorry mama.

 


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hug.gif sorry for your loss candle.gif

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(((WARM-HUGS)))


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I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts during this time.


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I am so very sorry for your loss.candle.gif

Happily married, busy mom to a houseful :-)

Expecting again early Oct 2014!

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That is devastating news. Some tears were shed out here in Seattle for you and your precious baby girl -

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oh, punkelmo, i am so sorry for you and your dp's loss.... you're baby girl sounds beautiful.  i'm glad you were able to spend some time with her.  you are in my thoughts.


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I am so heartbroken for you. gloomy.gif  I hope you can find peace and healing with your loved ones around you. Give those kitties lots of cuddles because they will understand and support you, too.


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I'm so sorry for you loss.

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Oh PunkElmo, I'm so incredibly sorry for your sudden loss. I cannot commiserate, I can only offer my deepest sympathy for what you are going through right now. Please take plenty of time to recover emotionally and physically while you mourn the loss of your baby girl.


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I am so sorry for your loss ((hugs))


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So sad.  So very sad.  I am so sorry for your devastating loss.  Rest in peace, baby girl.  candle.gif


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Punk Elmo, I am so very sorry for you and your partner. A great friend had a similar stillbirth over a year ago and just gave birth to a very healthy baby this year. I'm sure it's no condolence, but I'm sure you will do well in whatever you chose for the future of your family.

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My heart breaks for you and your DP, Judy.  I cannot even begin to imagine what you are going through.  Please be gentle with yourself as you begin to heal and process this awful trauma.  Many, many hugs and prayers.


 

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