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#1 of 20 Old 10-05-2010, 12:56 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Well I have to say goodbye. I'm having a miscarriage. I never thought it would happen to me. If anyone has any resources please let me know. Good luck to the rest of you!
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I'm so sorry ...

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I'm sorry It is so hard.

When I had a miscarriage, it blindsided me. When I got that positive pregnancy test, it never crossed my mind that I wouldn't have a baby in 9ish months. I felt like a fertility goddess...and then WHAM, it was over. I was not invincible. My body was not the perfect incubator. Pregnancies don't always end in babies. It really shattered my naivety, and made me a bit cynical.

((hugs)) mama. I hope that you can find a little peace in time.

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I'm so sorry for your loss The loss forum here at Mothering seems very supportive if you feel you may want to check it out.

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Having had 6 miscarriages myself... I understand the pain and loss you are feeling. All I can say is take it easy, allow yourself to grieve over your lost baby and in time I promise it will get better. You will never forget but the pain will ease. I am sooooooo sorry for your loss- I will be praying for you.

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I'm so very sorry.

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HUGS! I am so sorry! My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage. It is very hard, I agree to give yourself the time the grieve.
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I'm so so sorry.

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My first pregnancy ended in miscarriage as well. One thing that really helped me was knowing how incredibly common it is - really, you are NOT alone in this, or even unusual. Pretty much every sexually active woman will have at least one miscarriage during her lifetime. That doesn't make it hurt any less but I hope it helps to know you're not alone.

Best wishes to you.
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(((hugs)))

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

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awww mama. i'm so sorry for your loss. we had a chemical pregnancy last september that totally rocked my world, i never would have expected it. i'll be praying for you and your family...please check out the loss forums here, they are AMAZING. <3

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I'm so very sorry this happened. Much love to you.

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So so so sorry mama...I just wish no one had to belong to the loss club There is a great book I read after I lost our son called "Miscarriage: Women sharing from the heart." That and just talking to other moms who had suffered losses made me feel less alone...hang in there.

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Logging in and seeing these comments mean so much to me. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. I wish you the best during this rough time.

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awww, familyaffair- I'm so, so sorry. I may be joining you soon... I'm not sure what's going on. I think everyone finds consolation in different things, but for me, talking with a friend who has been through it has helped tremendously. Know that you are not alone and our thoughts and prayers are with you.
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Please check out the pregnancy and loss forum they were such a support to me

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