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#121 of 133 Old 11-11-2010, 07:18 AM
 
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Sorry for your loss mama.  greensad.gif  candle.gif


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So very sorry mama. I know we all were praying for a different outcome for you. You're in our thoughts and prayers.


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I'm so sorry.


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 It's not over ..........went the the appointment i had already set up and ultrasound still showed tissue measuring 6wk1day, I  got a prescription for Cytotec to take. I was told after i pass the tissue to set up a follow up appointment. The dr dismissed my concern for wanting to have testing done saying they wouldn't be able to because the tissue has started to disinagrate * rolling eyes*.  She said that the other tissue was probably the placenta... last i checked i'm pretty sure it's not tan in color like that tissue was and how any testing done on that tissue probably wouldn't tell much.


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I'm so sorry to read that this is not over, and that the doctor was dismissive of you greensad.gif  Do you have the support you need?  Can someone take the kids and stuff?


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so sorry you have to go through all this greensad.gif


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So sorry to hear this update. I'm so very sorry for your loss.


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so sorry


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 My mom mentioned taking the kids tonight after they finish with the big garage sale they are having  that will last til 2pm.

 

I took my first dose of Cytotec yesterday at 3:36pm and it didn't do anything other than some mild cramping that i'd say was at about a pain level of a 4 way  managable and the bleeding seemed to tapper off to almost nothing on a pad even overnight. I am feeling like the 2nd dose wont to anything and that i'm in the % of where it just doesn't work at all. greensad.gif

 


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Today 11/14 at what would  have been 10wks i'm 100% i passed the the tissue that the ultrasound showed was still there, my bleeding was down to like nothing, no cramping at all when i passed it either. I don't think the Cytotec had anything to do with me passing the tissue today.

 I have it in a zip lock bag with some water, and plan on calling the appointment line at 7am tomorrow ( we have Kaiser) and trying to get a appointment with the Dr the ER told me i could follow up with since we aren't fully moved out of this area yet, i plan on having them do testing on the tissue. I want answers this is my 2nd missed miscarriage and this baby took 3 years to get pregnant with.


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I hope this nightmare is finally over for you, I truly do!


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I'm so sorry. I was checking back here often, I remember you from the nursing TTC mama's thread. Thinking of you hug.gif


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I've just noticed your signature, Kami... guilty.gif I am so sorry for your loss, take a good care of yourself. Lots of prayers are with you praying.gif

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