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Old 01-02-2009, 07:37 PM
 
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I am so sorry. He is a beautiful baby boy. I hope you find peace.
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I'm so sorry to hear about your son

Our babies were born on the same day, I'm thinking about you a lot the past week.


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I'm so sorry for your loss. It's obvious that he was very loved during his short time with you.
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my deepest and heartfelt condolences.

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I'm so very sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so very sorry. I just saw the pictures and he is a beautiful boy. We are all here for you.
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I am so so very sorry for your loss, i wish i could hug you, i wish i could be there for you somehow.
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What a beautiful baby! Thanks for sharing the photos.
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I just read your blog and enjoyed each photo of your beautiful baby son Asa. I am praying for you as I enter this post. I am very, very sorry that he was called home so soon. I wish you and your dh, and all your families the comfort of peace.
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What a beautiful boy and what love and precious time you and your husband gave him. Thinking of you all and sending you peaceful thoughts.

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My heart goes out to you and your family, and your little angel.
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What a beautiful boy! I'm so sorry for you loss.

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I'm so very very sorry mama.

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I can't imagine what you are feeling.... You are in my prayers
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Peace to you, mama.

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Thanks to everyone for the continued support, it is so meaningful. I have read and reread the posts. Both DH and I continue to feel that Asa is OK. That he is where ever he belongs cosmically, and I always kind of imagine him with my grandfather, wearing that early sleep smile baby's get. Strangely, when I pray for him one of the things that I ask for is that he is warm.

We are doing OK... good days and bad days. We are kind of in a false world. We aren't staying at home, we are with my inlaws, I'm not working yet and one of my best friends is in town visiting. DH is back at work and he is struggling. He is finding that he has to tell a lot of his clients what is going on and is having to relive Asa's tragedy over and over again. We are just kind of melancholy. No longer puddles on the floor, we just kind of don't get what is going on and why this is all happening.

Anyways, thank you for your support, I always knew this was an amazing place.

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Missing Asa James, born into this world 11-17-08 and into the next 12-25-08
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I am so so so sorry this happened to your family. How heartbreaking. I cried when I read your story. Sending you healing thoughts.

aran .......... Mr. aran .......... DS1 .......... DS2
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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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There are no words....I am so sorry for your loss. I am in tears right now imagining your pain.
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Old 01-10-2009, 10:46 PM
 
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i am sorry Mama. Asa is a beautiful name.

Jenna in love with my DH Jon, loving our 2.5 year old, Caroline Tulip, and expecting another little one in August!
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Oh momma, I know i have already posted, but I just came back to see the pictures of your beautiful son. I am so sorry for your loss. As a fellow heart momma, I am just shaken to the core over your loss. s

Leah- wife to Chris : SAHM to Henry (03/06)and to Evelyn : (06/08). She is our heart attack survivor at 3.5 weeks and went on to have open heart surgery at 5 weeks for Coarctation of the Aorta.
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I am so, incredibly sorry for your loss. What an absolutely sweet and adorable baby. I'm sure your heart is hurting so much right now. I'm saying a prayer for your healing.
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I am truly sorry for your loss.

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Oh, mama. Peace to you.
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I am so so sorry for your little Asa.. what a beautiful little boy. He will always know how much you loved him.

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I am so, so sorry for your loss. I am wishing you and your DH peace and strength.
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Thank you for sharing your story. He was a beautiful baby! I will keep you and your DH in my thoughts and prayers. It is comforting to know that Asa is in a peaceful, beautiful place now watching over you both.
Continue to be strong... and live your life in honor of him. He wants you to be happy and remember the wonderful times you had with him.
God Bless! :
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