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#1 of 9 Old 05-24-2010, 06:10 PM - Thread Starter
 
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a week ago and I was so busy with all of her funeral proceedings and visiting my family out of state that I was too busy and shocked to grieve as much and now its hitting me. she was only 46 she would have been 47 on the 29th...she was younger when she had me and our relationship was complicated through the years but we were close and I loved her more than anything. I miss her so much, my heart hurts so bad. She just visited me a month ago and had her first and last pics taken with some of my children...we are a military family so we didnt get to visit with them much. I dont know what I am going to do without her calling me all the time and talking to her. this is so sad and so hard. I miss her so much.

 Jess mom to 5!!! 3 boys 2 girls and another girl on the way edd jan 31st! I have a Disabled veteran husband
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
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I'm sorry about your mom.
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I am so very sorry for your loss.
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I'm so very sorry for your loss.

Elizabeth wife to Matt , mom to Logan (2/21/01) , and little man Desmond (9/23/08)

Mourning the loss of her father: Robert Edward Dillon 5/31/52 - 01/03/2011

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

It has taken me four months since my mother's death to be ready, but now I've found a grief support group at one of the local hospices.

For me, the first week was pure shock. The second week, we got back home and started putting our lives back together after two weeks out of town. My toddler took it hard. I had to catch back up on my graduate class, so it took a while for reality to hit me. Your mileage will vary.

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So, so sorry for your loss!

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I am so very sorry for your loss, mama.
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I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending love and healing vibes your way.

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