Me and my wonderful husband serve God. Blessed with twin girls 2/11/11. <3
My heart is with you... yes, it is hard. Sometimes it is the hardest thing in the world... living without the child, knowing the child is living without you. I don't know what to say except that I completely understand what you feel. I haven't seen my 3 oldest children in over 9 years, and I know it's my fault. The pain... is immense. Even with my three younger children, it doesn't change my love and loss of the others.
Love to you.
)O( Far-away Mama to: Pooka (16)...Alex (14)...Mickie-Lamb (13)...Solo Mama to: Punkin' Seed (8)...Tootsie Pop (6)...Lil' Man (3) and a due February 2012
Best wishes and good luck!
(this may be of help especially: http://www.visaus.com/childabduct.html )
National Center for Missing and Exploited Children missingkids.com
Adam Walsh Resource Center http://www.amw.com/about_amw/john_walsh.cfm
National Center for Victims of Crime www.ncvc.org
Or, better yet, call the FBI to ask what can be done about this, if anything. Or if it's true that he's in England, maybe contact the consulate over there.
There has got to be something you can do to track this...ex down and get your child back. At least I pray there is. Don't give up mama!
I lived with that silent pain for a long time, but things have been made right (not that the hurt can ever be erased)... I hope that someone can help you and your little boy.
I can't imagine the pain but I'm sure your son knows how much you love him and in no way is this your fault. I hope you are reunited with your precious son soon.
Mom & RN
Pardon the typos - CWOK (cat walking on keyboard)
I think you may need to find a counselor to help you process all this. It's unimaginable, and being pregnant on top of it as well... It just seems to me that you may need an experienced ear to help you. You are in my thoughts, sending you LOVE and STRENGTH and PEACE Hang in there momma, for you are very Wise and Strong.
Married to Michael and Mother of Jake 9, Jillianne 7, Jensen 5, Jacen 4. I've got severe osteoporosis, a fractured hip and chronic pain-so please be patient with me! Pagan,Crocheter,Reader,Homeschooler- that's me in a nutshell.
I a so sorry. This is te worst someone can do to you!
I am European and living in Europe and also am a lawyer. Although I am not sure, I would try and contact the European Union and Interpol and see what they can do. We have a pretty strict law regading residency. He might have registered somewhere. If he is English it can be assumed that he stayed in an English speaking country. Have you ever tried to contact the Authorities here?
I wish you all the best!
Barbara, Mama to Isabel (06/2004), Jake (08/2006-03/2007), Noah (01/2008), and Matteo (07/2011)
Please always research the safety of vaccines even if your doctor tells you they are harmless!
Have you tried this?
If you haven't already, please contact the US State Department (above). They should be able to open a case and advise you.
|was just thinking about the dad who was fighting for years to get his son back from another country and finally did. Does anyone know who I mean?|
Thank you all for the replies and links..we(my famiily) are trying to do everything we can do, finances are very limited but the last time my son called me he said he was at his grandmothers visiting, so at least I know where he WAS. I have several friends in that town( i lived in the UK) and they have not seen my son around. I have also contacted social services in several cities. I am trying. This is something you see on Lifetime TV,not my life. I just try to have faith that God will answer our prayers and bring my son home to me.
There is a lot you can do without costing you any money. Have you contacted the state department and opened a case? Have you called the FBI? Call social services in England is going to do you no good if you have no kidnapping case filed. With all do respect, I would not be just sitting back waiting for God to bring my son back, I would be doing everything in my power to make it happen.