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#1 of 71 Old 10-20-2010, 05:25 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Hi ladies,
last week i lost my little boy after only 4.5 mo with him. he passed away while at the sitters (they think as a result of SIDS). this past week has been hell for us. i'm so broken, and i miss him terribly. he was our 1st, and was such a blessing. i know every mother thinks this way, but he was perfect. i'm trying to find my way out of this dark hole of sadness, but i'm having a hard time. pls keep dh and i in your thoughts. thx.
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I'm so sorry, momma. I can't imagine the pain you are going through.


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I am so very sorry.

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I'm so sorry, mama. My heart just aches for you and your DH.

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Oh. I'm praying for strength for your family.
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I'm so sorry
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more thoughts and prayers for you. i am so very sorry for your loss.

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Oh no. I am so, so sorry.

It's not that the stay-at-home-parent gets to stay home with the kids. The kids get to stay home with a parent. Lucky Mom to DD1 (4 y) and DD2 (18 mo), Wife to Mercenary Dad
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I'm so sorry
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I am so sorry, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

~Katie~ married to J, mom to DD- A 13 yrs ,DS- L 7yrs , and my little nursling DD2- R 5yrs.

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I'm inexpressibly sorry for your loss, mama.
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I am so very sorry. I can't imagine. Peace to you and your family, and Baby J.

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I'm so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry for both of you.

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Bless you Mama. There are no words for the pain you're going through.
I truly am so sorry for your loss.

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I'm so sorry, tippy I can't even imagine the pain you and your DH are in right now. You're in my thoughts and prayers
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Words just seem so inadequate in a time like this. So so sorry for the loss of your precious little one.

Praying for God's blessing of confort for you.
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Oh no

I'm so sorry

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I am so very sorry

Jenn: WOHM to a big girl (7/03), a medium girl (8/07), and a little girl (12/10)
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I'm so sorry. I can only imagine how much pain you are in right now.

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Words are inadequate, but I am so terribly sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry.

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Thinking of you s

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I am so sorry mama. I can't even imagine.

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I pray you find peace and comfort during this heartbreaking time.
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I am so sorry.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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So, so sorry... (((hugs)))

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Mama, my heart goes out to you and your husband for the loss of your precious baby. Unimaginable. There are really no words for this. You are in my thoughts.
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