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#1 of 8 Old 01-17-2011, 08:13 PM - Thread Starter
 
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Lost my baby last week at 15 weeks. i am still reeling from the loss. Found out at a regular midwife appt that my baby's heart had stopped/died a few says before. I had a D&E a few days later. i am in so much pain. I have 3 beautiful healthy children and this is my 2nd loss although the first loss was much earlier at 8 weeks.  I don't even know how to begin processing this.


AP crunchy homeschooling mama to Henning (1/4/03), Connor (7/1/05) and Elijah (9/21/08) Forever holding my 3 lost little ones in my heart.
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I am so sorry for your loss mama.

 

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i'm so sorry for your difficult loss. be gentle with yourself.


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I am so sorry for your loss. There is a special area with wonderful women who have been through this as well. You can find it here http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/list/22

They are a wonderful resource. I will be thinking and praying for you.


~Katie~ married to J, mom to DD- A 13 yrs ,DS- L 7yrs , and my little nursling DD2- R 5yrs.

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I am so sorry...do you have good support amongst your friends and family? Give yourself permission to grieve and take the time you need to work through your feelings...sending you much love and healing.


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Mama I am so sorry for your loss. Almost 2 yrs ago I lost a baby at 19 wks and had a D & E as well. Please PM me if you ever need to talk 


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