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Old 05-26-2012, 09:59 PM
 
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I am so sorry.

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Old 05-28-2012, 11:37 PM
 
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I'm so sorry about the loss of your sweet baby boy! Heartbreaking. Words are not enough.
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Holly, I am so very sorry for your loss. you have been and will continue to be in my thoughts. I wish you peace and healing... (((hugs)))

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As I sit here crying for your loss, trying to imagine my world without one of my babies, I cannot even come close to understanding the anguish you are feeling.  Your love for Charlie will not lessen, please take comfort here, with your family and in your future as you grieve 
 


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Old 05-30-2012, 08:45 AM
 
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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I am so very sorry, Holly.  What a great mama he had for his brief time.  candle.gif

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I am so sorry for your loss.

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So very sorry for your great loss. Clearly such a loved baby, and I'm sure he knew it. 
 


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So So sorry mama : ( : ( : (


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I'm crying because you know...it could happen to ANY of us.  Anyone.  And the fact that you....you lost your sweet boy is just unimaginable.  I'll be saying extra prayers tonight and that isn't something I do.  I just feel like he and you both deserve it.  

 

Much love to you, mama.  To your whole family, to big sister, to mama and daddy.  I cannot even begin to say the right words but I hope you know that your loss .... it has touched me and touched many.  I hope you know you are NOT alone.  Love love love love.  

 

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Thanks to everyone smile.gif.

Abd Babycakes, you're right. It can happen to anyone, but I hope other moms don't exist in such fear that it will happen to them. I know when people hear stories like this, they often become terrified of it happening to them. I did. I used to avoid stories of loss constantly on MDC because it scared me so much.
Thanks for your thoughts a prayers- they mean a lot.

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I am so shocked and saddened to hear of your little babes passing. I cannot imagine your pain and suffering moment.  Much love and peace. xx


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I am so incredibly sorry for your loss candle.gif


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Holly, I am so sorry for your loss and all that you had to endure in the hours and days after your beautiful son passed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
 


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