My advice may not be appropriate for you. That's ok. You are just fine how you are and I am the right kind of me.
As I sit here crying for your loss, trying to imagine my world without one of my babies, I cannot even come close to understanding the anguish you are feeling. Your love for Charlie will not lessen, please take comfort here, with your family and in your future as you grieve
I'm crying because you know...it could happen to ANY of us. Anyone. And the fact that you....you lost your sweet boy is just unimaginable. I'll be saying extra prayers tonight and that isn't something I do. I just feel like he and you both deserve it.
Much love to you, mama. To your whole family, to big sister, to mama and daddy. I cannot even begin to say the right words but I hope you know that your loss .... it has touched me and touched many. I hope you know you are NOT alone. Love love love love.
Carrie SAHM to Nora Caitlyn ('08) and Finnley Dax ('11) homebirthing, breastfeeding, babywearing, intactivist, doula mama!
Abd Babycakes, you're right. It can happen to anyone, but I hope other moms don't exist in such fear that it will happen to them. I know when people hear stories like this, they often become terrified of it happening to them. I did. I used to avoid stories of loss constantly on MDC because it scared me so much.
Thanks for your thoughts a prayers- they mean a lot.
Holly and David
Adaline (3/20/10), and Charlie (1/26/12- 4/10/12) and our identical twins Callie and Wendy (01/04/13)
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss
Claire, book reading, tree loving, coffee drinking wife to K, and happy SAHM to ds G Feb '09 home birth, dd C ~ free birthed June '11, and now a new lil surprise due October 2012
Holly, I am so sorry for your loss and all that you had to endure in the hours and days after your beautiful son passed. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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