Breaking point - Mothering Forums

 
Thread Tools
#1 of 3 Old 05-08-2013, 07:53 AM - Thread Starter
 
allusedup123's Avatar
 
Join Date: May 2013
Posts: 1
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)
I'm standing at the door ready to walk away. I'm 55 and in the last couple years have had more than my share thrown at me. My 2 children are over 21. My son and girlfriend live at home and if it wasn't for them we would have lost our home. My husbands x brother in-law moved in to our motor home last year and now his girlfriend is there too. I gave my sister 2 years ago a place to park her motor home. She took advantage of me. Did drugs and cheered on her 5 th husband who is my long time friend. So I kicked her out. I'm now a heartless person and many things I can't say here in our mothers eyes. Haven't talked to them for 4 mo. My husbands youngest sister died last sept of cancer. My best friend is now in a coma in hospital fighting for his life. My daughters boyfriend is mentally abusive doesnt work and has used all her savings and just crashed her car with her in it at the end of my drive 3 weeks ago and got a DUI. I'm trying to get her to see he's a leach. We're barley making monthly bills. And I have no feelings left for anything. Life with my husband though I do love him is just a daily chore. I gave up my health insurance 3 years ago along with our life insurance to save money. I thought 25 years ago giving up my career and becoming a stay at home mom and business partner we would have more than we do. Jokes on me.
allusedup123 is offline  
Sponsored Links
Advertisement
 
#2 of 3 Old 05-08-2013, 10:36 PM
 
Viola's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2002
Location: Nevada
Posts: 22,642
Mentioned: 5 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 17 Post(s)

hug2.gif I'm sorry.
 

Viola is offline  
#3 of 3 Old 05-11-2013, 10:34 PM
 
beckybird's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Somewhere in a Mandelbrot Set
Posts: 2,222
Mentioned: 11 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 167 Post(s)

I don't have any advice, but just know that you can talk about your problems here. Sometimes, just getting it out of your head and in writing can help. You are not heartless, and it seems like the people in your life are walking all over your heart. I hope you find a way to protect yourself from everyone who is harming you!


 
 
 "This is the sickest species the world has ever known."
Dr.John Bergman, speaking about the human species.
 
 
 
beckybird is offline  
Reply

Tags
Grief And Loss


User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page



Posting Rules  
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Online Users: 19,066

201 members and 18,865 guests
1babysmom , a-sorta-fairytale , agilesheltie , Aillidh , Alenushka , alvesky , AMG , AndrewsMother , angeebaby , AnkaJones , Anne Jividen , asa_anna , AuntNi , aylasebmom , badwolf092087 , BarefootBrooke , blessedwithboys , bluefaery , Breastisbest2008 , bren94 , Bronwen1-3 , calico_aster , captainkitty2 , CarrieCo , Catholic Mama , Celestical , Chalex , Cherry_Blossom , chickabiddy , chispita , cini , Crazybean , Cricket VS , Daffodil , dahlia810 , Dakotacakes , dancingsunflowers80 , dani2015 , darlini76 , dayloveme , dbsam , Deborah , DesertSunsets , ElFunElf , Emanresu , Emaya , emmy526 , Ethelpea , eutana , farmermomma , fljen , floss&ferd , friederike , frugalmama , fruitfulmomma , funfunkyfantastic , Galatea , graphica , greenemami , Hannah32 , hillymum , hottmomma , Hybrid Mama , ian'smommaya , Iron Princess , jazzmom74 , jeanalamae , JLUK , jnalea , jojobean , jtbuko , K703 , KaileyAbril , Katherine73 , kathymuggle , kindofcrunchy82 , kittiwakes , kittycat1 , KrisInDenmark , ksilgard , KT'smama , ktolbert09 , leftcoaster , Letitia , Leyah5683 , lightheartedmom , lilacvioletiris , lilgreen , LilLove , lilmissgiggles , LiLStar , Linda on the move , littlebear3 , LittleKind , love2wod , loveandlight33 , LoveNFaith522 , lralex , LSormillon , mama2004 , mama24-7 , mamabear0314 , MamaChick , mamadee17 , mamamargo , marilyn612 , Mbella , mearph , meowmix , Milk8shake , Mirzam , missmink , mkflynn9 , mommyshoppinghabit , MomofLath , MPsSweetie , muddie , mum06 , MylittleTiger , NaturallyKait , newmamalizzy , Night_Nurse , nikkialys , oaksie68 , organicmommie , peripagi , petrel71 , Piskito , PitBullMom , pokeyac , pumabearclan , quantumleap , Ragana , rainydaywoman , RollerCoasterMama , RosemaryV , Rossriver , rubelin , salr , Salsamelissa , samaxtics , SandiMae , sarafl , Satori , Serafina33 , Serenity Now , sewingmama , Shaktari , Shmootzi , shoeg8rl , siennaflower , skj2011 , smudge , Snydley , sofreshsoclean , spewie , Springshowers , starlein26 , StephMN , SummerStorm22 , TealCandy , thefragile7393 , thekoz , thtr4me , Thursday Girl , Tigerle , tomsmom31 , transpecos , TrishWSU , Turner58800 , typebug , usually-lurking , Veritas Vitae , wassernixe , Waterwoman4 , waywornwanderer , wiltonator , Wolfcat , worthy
Most users ever online was 449,755, 06-25-2014 at 12:21 PM.