Join Date: Jun 2004
Location: Tornado Alley, next to Dorothy
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I am so sorry for your loss also. I feel so much the same! My grandma just died last month from Lou Gehrig's disease, so she had wasted away into a shell of the woman she was. I keep having nightmares of seeing her (as well as my remaining grandparents) in the casket, not looking at all like herself. And I have nightmares of my dad, her son, dying for various reasons. These dreams really bother me! I know how you feel. I think the advice of following this memory with a good memory sounds good, I'm going to try that. I also made a counselling apt. for the first time in my life to see if my grief is normal. Do you have many supportive people at home? Have you lost anyone else close to you before? I hadn't in my 26 years. I wonder if this is why we're having this reaction.
I will keep you in my prayers! If you need someone to talk to, Pm me anytime!