on the phone with her today she broke down and said she realized she is grieving the death of her children
her ex has, imho, kidnapped her babies, ds 6 and dd3. she has not seen her ds for 6 months, other than a handful of times. she has not seen dd3 for 2 weeks now. if you need to know the details, i have a post in single parenting about her situation.
i do not know how to help her
i feel like i am getting sucked up into a hole myself. my heart aches for her. my heart aches for her babies. i feel nauseaous much of the time. i can break into tears at a moment's notice. and i am NOT my sister. i cannot imagine how she is even feeling
i feel guilty i am 6 hours away from her and cannot hold her so she can cry in my lap. i feel guilty that i can do nothing other than listen to her tears and cries on the phone. i feel guilty that i cannot make my little sister stop hurting. i feel guilty when i am happy knowing what my sister is going through.
i feel like God has forgotten her in her pain that he has abandoned her. she has done nothing to deserve to not see her children. they are her babies and she stayed at home with them since they were born
why would her ex do such a hideous thing as to keep his kids from her. can he not see that they would also suffer?
if this is not the right place to post, i'm sorry.