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Old 10-07-2006, 07:35 PM
 
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Oh mama,

tears are pouring down my face as i sit here reading of the terror you are going through right now. i am so terribly, beyond words sad that you have lost 2 of your sweet babies. mama, please please please know in your heart that this is NOT your fault. it was an accident, if there ever was one. everybody in this world (and above) knows that you would not have chosen this in a million years, and that if you could change it, you would for anything.

you are right, it was NOT your babies' time to go. life is sometimes so cosmically unfair. i am so so so sorry.

is there anything we can do for you? do you have any needs that we could cover-materially or financially? could we write letters to the court on your behalf?

you and all of your family are in my prayers.

Lianne and Finn

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Old 10-08-2006, 12:54 AM
 
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I am so sorry
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Nina, I am thinking of you and your family.

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Oh mama, I'm so sorry for you. My heart is just aching. I hope that the legal stuff works out for you. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. I can't even imagine what you must be going through right now. Sending you love, hugs, healing, peace and prayers.
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I came across your post earlier and just want to say how sorry I am mama.


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I am so deeply sorry for your losses. Please take care of yourself while you take care of everyone else too. Ask for help where you need it. And for time alone.
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I am so sorry
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I am so sorry for your loss. It could happen to any of us. Praying for your heartache to ease with time. My condolences.

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Old 10-11-2006, 09:40 AM
 
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I have been thinking of you. I hope you are able to rest and heal. How is your son Conor doing?

Peace to you
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Praying and thinking of you and your family. I am so sorry. Words fail me in an effort to console you in your grief. Be kind to yourself.
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I also couldn't read and not post. I'm so sorry for the loss of your children.
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wishes of peace for you and your family.

me dh ds1 (11/04) ds2 (7/10) and
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I am so sorry. I will pray for you and your family.
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Old 10-11-2006, 10:28 PM
 
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Oh mama tears are running down my face as I type. Wishing you and your family love and healing light...
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I can't imagine the depth of your pain or the magnitude of your grief. Hugs and prayers for your healing and your family's strength.
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My heart aches for you mama...



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Old 10-13-2006, 03:02 AM
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I couldn't read and not post. I am so sorry for your losses.

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I'm so sorry, mama! How are you doing? I will be thinking and praying for you, your husband, and Conor...


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I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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It's been over a month now...
still feels like they are just in the other room and will come running in yelling mommy mommy like they used to. The house is so quiet and my heart is so heavy.
Tonight my mom came and sat with Conor while DH and I went to a movie.
We hardly ever took the time to do that before. It was hard to find someone to watch all three kids, especially with their special needs. It was hard, but needed. I hardly got out of bed today. After the movie I started crying. I miss my babies so deeply. I never thought I could hurt this much.
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I'm so sorry mama. I know there's nothing I can say to help you feel better. but I am thinking of you (and been reading your knitting blog too!) I hope you can find a little peace on this journey.

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Old 10-17-2006, 02:46 AM
 
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It's been over a month now...
still feels like they are just in the other room and will come running in yelling mommy mommy like they used to. The house is so quiet and my heart is so heavy.
Tonight my mom came and sat with Conor while DH and I went to a movie.
We hardly ever took the time to do that before. It was hard to find someone to watch all three kids, especially with their special needs. It was hard, but needed. I hardly got out of bed today. After the movie I started crying. I miss my babies so deeply. I never thought I could hurt this much.
Was reading your blog mama(I swear I'm not stalking you). It will help. It will. You will get through this. We love you.
If you want someone to go to a class with you, I am totally game, I have been wanting to take some classes too. Especially sock knitting!

Hang in there mama, so glad you got to go out for a bit with Tom.

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Old 10-17-2006, 06:43 AM
 
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Oh, mama. I am sorry for your loss.

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Old 10-17-2006, 06:50 AM
 
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I wish there was something I could do to ease your pain. I simply cannot imagine it.

We're here for you for as long as you need it.
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I love you Nina. Im so glad you got out for a while last night... I am sure you needed it. Kiss Conor Conor from us!

xoxo
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I am so sorry. I can't even imagine what you must be going through. Please know that you are all in my prayers.
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My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

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Old 10-17-2006, 02:19 PM
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I dont know what to say Nina..I hope god gives you the strength to get through this. My heart just aches thinking about what you are going through.
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I am so very very sorry. I don't know what else to say. My heart just aches for you.
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