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#121 of 143 Old 11-19-2006, 12:52 AM
 
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i am so sorry for your loss. i lost my daughter when she was only two days old. it was rough, but i can imagine it being even harder had we been given more time with her. s
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Oh mama, my heart is just aching for you. I am so, so sorry for your tragic loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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My aunt (and best friend) lost her son 10 years ago, he was in his 30's. She lived in a fog for the first couple of years. She still hurts, a lot, but through a lot of prayer, support, and personal growth she has been able to live. I am so sorry, I read your post and felt so much empathy for you, I wish I could come find you and hug you and let you cry for hours. If there is a higher power or centered self that you believe in, go there. Let yourself be safe in that circle of love. Love to you.

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Nina.
I love you.
I wish I could hug you.
I want to call you everyday just to tell you Im ALWAYS here for you, but I don't because I don't wanna bug you.
Please know that I think of your Family everyday.

xoxo
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I am so sorry.
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#126 of 143 Old 11-23-2006, 03:26 PM
 
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I just ran across you Op today.

Let me say how deeply sorry I am for your recent loss. Rest easy in the knowledge that your children knew and still know that you love them deeply.

Thank you for posting about your loss. It makes us truly thankful for what we sometimes take for granted.

I wish I could be there to wrap my arms around you and hold you while you cry all those tears that keep coming.

Grief for as long and in the way that you need to.

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#127 of 143 Old 11-25-2006, 05:07 PM
 
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You must stay strong for your little conner.
Its not fair that your babies were taken from you.
Im so sorry for your loss.

May your two babies rest in peace.
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I read your post and my heart hit the floor.

I am so very sorry
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I cannot imagine your pain. I'm sorry your babies were taken from you.

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Im thinking of you Nina... I love you very much.
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about to reach 300 days without my Hannah.... oh, I can so remember how fresh my pain was when I was where you are! I can't soften my words, it's not an easy road to be upon, one without your baby, but it is one you *can* navigate, even when you think you can't... (yes, even when you don't wanna!)
Be kind and gentle to yourself; fire your negative voices!
Remember to breathe deeply and be grateful for each breath.
Allow others to be kind to you -- it is a gift you give to them, an opportunity to be generous with you.
Continue to Love and be Loved....
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all the love and light in the world to you dear. you are loved more than you will ever know.
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peace and blessings mama....be gentle with yourself.....rest upon those who love you......
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I am so very very sorry.
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Your losses have really touched my heart, because my children are the exact same ages as Lianne and Finn. I cannot imagine what you and your family are going through. I know this will probably sound stupid coming from a stranger, but if there is ANYTHING I can do, please let me know. I am sending you prayers, love, and light from Louisiana.
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Just stopping in to check on how you're doing; and to light up another candle in each of their honor.

RIP Lianne

RIP Finn


Hang in there Nina. You're doing a great job staying strong for C. Send your DH my sympathies and regards as well. Keep leaning on eachother in this most difficult time.


Get better soon Connor....stay strong little guy!

hugs, Vanessa.


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Nina,

I came to this board as a support for the loss of my father, when I happened upon your post. I don't have any answers why things like this happen. I spend time hypothesizing, but it is too great for me to understand. Your strength is abolutely amazing and I will be praying that you can get through just one more day. Reading your post just makes me mad and sad as I believe that no one should have to go through the loss of a child. It is the greatest pain in the world. However, you are handling this with incredible grace and dignity, honestly far more than I think I would have. My continued prayers are with your family and that little Conor gets through his own battle.

Please take care.

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#140 of 143 Old 03-23-2007, 01:07 AM
 
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Crap, I don't know if it's helpful or hurtful at this point to bump this thread back up, but I just read your story and couldn't not comment.

I have no real life experience to draw from that I can give you answers with. I have no time lines or even anecdotal stories.

What I do have is love and compassion and empathy and I give those all to you and your husband and Connor infinately and without bounds.

It's lonely being the only XX in a house of XYs.
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Crap, I don't know if it's helpful or hurtful at this point to bump this thread back up, but I just read your story and couldn't not comment.
Yes, I don't know if it hurts or helps, I just saw on your blog that the six-month anniversary of your tragedy was just past, and I am simply speechless, without words and so overcome with emotion that nothing I can type will properly convey my overwhelming sorrow for your losses.

It was not their time. It simply wasn't. And I'm sorry they were taken before they lived their lives.

Mama to H (6) B (3) : A (1)
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Don't blame yourself. Please, please don't blame yourself. Most people have no idea how dangerous it is to drive while tired. You can raise awareness now and save lives. But remember-- it wasn't your fault. It was a danger you didn't know about. It's not your fault!
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your two sweet babes.. I can't even imagine what you're going through, a mother's worst nightmare. I'm so sorry.
I feel so foolish for focusing on the little things lately and losing sight of what really matters.
to you, mama.

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