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#91 of 115 Old 07-29-2007, 06:31 PM
 
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So sorry for your loss.

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Thanks.


Right now I have SIL on IM defending this! (The email.) Unreal. I'm not even replying anymore & she goes on & on...why are they doing this to me? Is rubbing it in fun? :

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I'm so sorry ((hugs))

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Thank you.

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I'm so sorry. I was out of town and just saw this.

I DO know at least some of your history with your MIL. : She'll get what's coming to her one day. Just put her out of your mind now. You don't need to let her have any power right now.



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I'm so sorry. I was out of town and just saw this.

I DO know at least some of your history with your MIL. : She'll get what's coming to her one day. Just put her out of your mind now. You don't need to let her have any power right now.



-Angela
Thanks...it's just - how much damage can one person do, ya know? But, yup, she'll get hers.

Appreciate all the support, everyone. Being so far & having noone to talk to...blah, this thread helped.

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I'm so sorry, take care of you s

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I'm so sorry that you are going through all of this and are feeling isolated. I wish you could be with all the people who loved your dad right now.
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Hoping you find comfort ...






And hoping your MIL ... ohnevermind.

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And hoping your MIL ... ohnevermind.

I have never specifically and purposely wished harm to anyone, but Marie's GMIL has changed that.

There aren't words for that beast.

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Thanks guys.

Carrie... ...I wanna hop on IM to talk to you but I keep getting assaulted by IMs from those people. *sigh*

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I'm so sorry for your loss.

Mom of a 7 yr old, 4 yr old, and 1 yr old. Wow. How did that happen?
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Oh, no! I am so sorry for your loss.
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I'm so sorry.
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i'm so very sorry for your loss. love and light to you and your family.

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Many thanks!

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I finally got them. I hope noone here EVER has to tell a mother her son is dead. OMG, that is going to haunt me forever. I have never heard or felt such pain in my life. Telling her that was more emotional and painful than hearing he was gone.
I'm sorry. I had to tell my mother that her daughter/my sister died. Although my mother's reaction was different than one would expect...

You are in my thoughts.
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Oh Marie - I've just read through this whole thread. I am so, so sorry. No one should have to deal with the crap you've had to deal with on top of losing their father. My heart goes out to you. I hope you can find a way to block their IMs - that is absolutely ridiculous - the fact that someone could defend that behavior is just horrid. I'm so sorry.
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Thanks all! I sent my Aunt & Cousin to my Dad's apartment today & they cleaned it out for me, donated what I asked & mailed me the rest. And they refuse to let me pay them for it. There are indeed good people out there. There were several boxes & the CHEAPEST was $80. Makes me feel better about all the evil people I must contend with. *sigh* Getting his things will really help.

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I am sorry for your loss. Sending love and light
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I'm so sorry for your loss and everything you've been through the last week. Your MIL...well, there's a UA to abide by...

Huge hugs to you.

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Thank you all.

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