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#1 of 36 Old 12-31-2007, 12:38 AM - Thread Starter
 
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Tomorrow/New Years Day was the due date for my twin baby girls born too early at 14 weeks on July 3rd and 15 weeks on July 8th of this year.

To add insult to injury, my body is struggling to have its first AF this year as my last angel left us on December 5th and I am in horrible physical pain.

The grief is more than I can bear

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I'm so sorry Rosemary.
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I'm so sorry.
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I'm so sorry.

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I'm thinking of you. The baby I was lost was due on the Fourth of July. It will never be the same for me., as I know New Year's will always have painful reminders connected to it. I wish you peace and healing in the year to come, friend.
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I'm sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry. I will be thinking about you.
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Thinking of you and your angels.
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I'm wishing you peace and strength during this time, mama.

for your beautiful little ones.


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so sorry mama. i hope this new year brings you peace.
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Many, many thoughts going your way. :

I have had several m/c's, but the one that is the hardest is the one I lost on DHs birthday. It tough having a m/c, but when it happens on a day of celebration, it really makes it hard to go on during those times.

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How are you holding up Rosemary?
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Thinking of you, mama.
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Strength to you mama at this sad sad time. :
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Thinking of you today, mama.

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How are you holding up Rosemary?
Not real well....:

Yesterday we were in Grande Prairie doing a bunch of shopping and running around, so my mind had something else to focus on.

But today has been real quiet and I have been organizing pictures that I got processed yesterday that were on the camera since April (about 300 pics).

In that package, are pictures of me pregnant with the twins and then pictures just three short weeks later of their tiny bodies. It is still just so surreal.

I was watching the news and what, of course, would they be reporting on.....New Years babies. Instantly, my eyes welled up with tears. Those should have been my babies!!!!

I am going down for a nap now because it just hurts to breathe....
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oh, mama. i'm so, so sorry.

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Rosemary. I am so sorry mama.
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Rosemary, I am so sorry.

My angel baby's due date will be here soon, and I know it will be so hard for me. Just not fair. I wish we all didn't have to go through it.

Hope you were gentle with yourself today. Thinking of you.
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Due dates are really, really hard. I'm so sorry, Rosemary.


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I'm so sorry!
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I'm very sorry for your loss, mama.
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