Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Finding my place...
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Take a moment and stop moving on. Just allow yourself to feel what you need to feel. You aren't ready to move on yet and that is why you are finding it so difficult.
Take things a day at a time. Just because she died, doesn't mean you have to stop emailing her. When my Gran died earliere this year, I felt so alone and scared. I knew she was dead but I still phoned her house, I even left a message on the answering machine. It made me feel a bit better. I would still be calling if it weren't for the fact that the number now doesn't exist so I just get an automated message. Instead I imagine what she would say to me.
After my Grand dad and brother died, I found it really difficult, but I learnt from their deaths how to grieve so when my Gran died, I just let my self go with it andit was so much easier to not fight against the current and it really helped me this time around.
Many hugs to you........