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Old 05-02-2008, 01:10 PM
 
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Oh god, I am so sorry.
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I am so sorry for your loss.


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OMG, I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and your family. What a beautiful little boy.

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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry.

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What a beautiful boy. I'm so sorry.
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Peace be with you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

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I'm so sorry. You and your family are in my prayers.

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I'm so sorry. He looked so happy and healthy in his pictures. I can't imagine what you must be feeling. You're in my prayers.

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he WAS so happy and healthy in his pictures. that's why this is such a blow.
totally out of left field.

my husband read all your responses and wanted me to thank everyone for their care and concern. my responsibility right now is to him, to hold him together. it's not easy.

i'm very angry today.
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I'm sorry, mama.
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Oh, mama. I'm so deeply sorry.


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I'm so sorry.
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he WAS so happy and healthy in his pictures. that's why this is such a blow.
totally out of left field.

my husband read all your responses and wanted me to thank everyone for their care and concern. my responsibility right now is to him, to hold him together. it's not easy.

i'm very angry today.
I hope you let him and others that you love hold you up too. You have every right to feel angry.

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I am so sorry. Peace to your sweet boy.

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I wish you and your family peace and comfort from the very bottom of my heart.
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I know there are just no words of comfort, no amount of hugs that can ease this pain. We are here, thinking of you and your dh and your Lucas. I hope and pray for peace to come to your heart.

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May the Lord above protect and keep your little boy safe and secure in His arms, until you are reunited.

My heart just breaks for you,,, having to be strong for your DH, you are an amazing mama.

I lost a fiance and my mom to brain cancer. It is terrible. I can't imagine how you are suffering right now but please know these words I am typing do not fully express my sorrow for you.
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Oh, mama, I am so so sorry for your loss. What a shock. You have every right to feel angry.

He is so beautiful in the pictures -- so happy and so loved.

My heart breaks for you... Peace and healing to you and your family.

sweet little Lucas

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I am so very sorry for your loss of your beautiful son. What an unimaginably profound and devastating loss. Your family is in my thoughts.
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What a beautiful little one. I can see in the pictures how well loved he was.

I'm so sorry, there just aren't the right words.

Wife to a wonderful dh and mom to four beautiful kiddos, dd (3/04):, ds1 (1/06), ds2 (10/08), and ds3 (7/10)
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How devastating. I am so sorry you lost your son. I looked at his pictures, he's a beautiful little guy, I can't even imagine.... I am so sorry.

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Sorry doesn't cover it. I am sobbing for you and sending love and light for you and your family. I hope you can feel all the love pouring your way from your MDC family.


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It's okay for you to be angry. I would be, too. It's just so unfair. I wish you peace and healing.
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Oh no Katie. I can't believe this. It's just not fair. Of course you're angry. How does one make sense of such a thing. I'm so incredibly sorry this happened to you and to him. He was extremely well-loved and a sparkly, beautiful little boy.
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I'm so very sorry mama. Your pics of him are just precious. :
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I am so sorry.
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What a beautiful boy.
I am so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine.
May peace and love surround you and your family
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Oh my god - I am so very sorry to hear this.
*hugs* to you Mama

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