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Old 05-02-2008, 05:41 PM
 
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My heart goes out to you and your family.

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I'm so sorry mama

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I am so sorry. It's not fair, nobody should ever have to lose a child.
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Oh no. I'm so sorry.
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How devastating for you and your family. I am so sorry.

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Losing a child must be hte worst thing that could ever happen. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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Oh god this is horrible. We were fellow DDCers, and my heart is just breaking for you. It's not fair! I'm so, so sorry.
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My heart is breaking for you. I am so sorry.
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I'm so sorry for your loss, mama. I can't imagine your pain. You and your family are in my thoughts.
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I'm so very sorry for you losing your little boy. It's just not fair at all that he is gone. Words really fail me.
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I'm so sorry. that seems like such a small thing to say, I just dont know how eles to say it.....

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oh mama, i am so very sorry for your loss. there just aren't words.

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I am so sorry for your loss.
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I am so very sorry for your loss.

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I'am so sorry for your loss, your in my Prayers

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What a beautiful little boy. What a terrible loss.
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Oh, Mama I'm just so sorry. My heart breaks for you and your family. But words are just not enough. You are in my thoughts and prayers. 1 :
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I am so very sorry for your loss mama!

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I am so sorry...I hope you get some peace knowing there are 1000's of hands ready to hold you up whenever you need it... peace and love mama.
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Mama, he is so very beautiful. There are no words to express how sorry I am. Sending you much love.


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thank all of you for all your kindness and sympathy; it means a lot.

we're bewildered. please know that we are very fortunate in that we have been constantly surrounded by friends, family, and loved ones, and we are not alone if we don't want to be. the mdc community will be a well of strength ad comfort to me in the coming weeks and months, and rest assured i'll call on each and every one of you if i need you.

when i summon the courage, i'll post the full story.
be advised, it isn't pretty. whether it's a lawsuit or a voodoo curse, there will be people who will have their feet held to the fire over what happened to Lucas. mistakes were quite certainly made.

i will have no peace for many, many days. but i take all of your strength and concern and it helps me put one foot in front of the other for another day or two.

my love goes out to all of you.
hold your babies tight tonight.
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thank all of you for all your kindness and sympathy; it means a lot.

we're bewildered. please know that we are very fortunate in that we have been constantly surrounded by friends, family, and loved ones, and we are not alone if we don't want to be. the mdc community will be a well of strength ad comfort to me in the coming weeks and months, and rest assured i'll call on each and every one of you if i need you.

when i summon the courage, i'll post the full story.
be advised, it isn't pretty. whether it's a lawsuit or a voodoo curse, there will be people who will have their feet held to the fire over what happened to Lucas. mistakes were quite certainly made.

i will have no peace for many, many days. but i take all of your strength and concern and it helps me put one foot in front of the other for another day or two.

my love goes out to all of you.
hold your babies tight tonight.
Katie, it is good to hear from you. You have been in my thoughts constantly. I am glad you are surrounded by loving people. Please know that we are right here with you!! I send you lots of love.

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I am so sorry for you. your are in my prayers.
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be advised, it isn't pretty. whether it's a lawsuit or a voodoo curse, there will be people who will have their feet held to the fire over what happened to Lucas. mistakes were quite certainly made.

i will have no peace for many, many days. but i take all of your strength and concern and it helps me put one foot in front of the other for another day or two.

my love goes out to all of you.
hold your babies tight tonight.
Katie, I was in the 08/06 ddc while you were pg w/ Lucas & Erin was born the day after Lucas. 6 weeks ago I lost a baby @ 22.5 weeks & that was/is the hardest thing I've ever done, but if Erin was taken from me... I just cannot imagine where you are right now & am so so sorry you have to be there F*ck, it's so not fair The circumstances sound horrific

Holding you & Lucas in my heart
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I'm so, so sorry, Mama. May time bring you peace. What a beautiful little boy.
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My heart breaks for you and your family. I'm so sorry. You guys will be in my thoughts and prayers.

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