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#91 of 92 Old 02-21-2012, 09:18 AM
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My yard isn't fenced so I can't actually let my almost 4yr  and almost 6 yr olds outside totally unsupervised but...


I do let them go play outside right in the back yard while I sit at the dining room table (the dining room has french doors that look right out into the back yard). I keep the door cracked open so I can hear what is going on and the rule is that they have to be within sight and hearing. If I have to go to a different room for some reason, where I cannot see or hear them, they have to come inside. If my yard were fenced I would have no qualms at all about them being out there with a less supervision although I think it's likely that I would still want to keep a door or window cracked so that I could hear what they were up to and wouldn't be comfortable not checking on them regularly.

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#92 of 92 Old 02-21-2012, 09:45 AM
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That is exactly what I thought. Just make sure you truly can trust your neighbor!! I thought I knew mine! I had my dining room table by the window too and back door open!

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