Once again, I turn to this wonderful community in a time of crisis when I have no where else to turn.
Moderators, I'm not sure where I should post this, please feel free to move it.
This may be long!
Last month, I had open heart surgery and my kids were with my in-laws for a week. My mil, who is a therapist who has specialized in childhood sexual abuse noticed a behavior in my daughter that put up a red flag for her.
Apparently, my two kids (dd 4.5 and ds almost 2) were in the bath together, and dd took ds's hand and forced him to touch her between the legs while he struggled against it. I guess this happened twice in the same bath. My MIL, and the two child psychologists she has since talked to, all say that there is NO way that dd would ever think to do this unless she herself has been innapropriately touched or seen behaviour like this. According to them, there's no way she hasn't been molested basically.
My whole world is spinning and I now feel like I can't trust anyone and can't talk to anyone about it. I am still recovering from surgery and am basically a wreck over this. Can anyone give me any insight? Sorry for typos, my kkids are climbing all over me!
Moderators, I'm not sure where I should post this, please feel free to move it.
This may be long!
Last month, I had open heart surgery and my kids were with my in-laws for a week. My mil, who is a therapist who has specialized in childhood sexual abuse noticed a behavior in my daughter that put up a red flag for her.
Apparently, my two kids (dd 4.5 and ds almost 2) were in the bath together, and dd took ds's hand and forced him to touch her between the legs while he struggled against it. I guess this happened twice in the same bath. My MIL, and the two child psychologists she has since talked to, all say that there is NO way that dd would ever think to do this unless she herself has been innapropriately touched or seen behaviour like this. According to them, there's no way she hasn't been molested basically.
My whole world is spinning and I now feel like I can't trust anyone and can't talk to anyone about it. I am still recovering from surgery and am basically a wreck over this. Can anyone give me any insight? Sorry for typos, my kkids are climbing all over me!