Something dd just told me - Page 2 - Mothering Forums

Forum Jump: 
Reply
 
Thread Tools
#31 of 35 Old 04-16-2012, 07:31 PM
 
Chamsia's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2007
Posts: 401
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

Report it to the school immediately.

Chamsia is offline  
#32 of 35 Old 04-16-2012, 08:48 PM
 
rubidoux's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 2,711
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I'm wondering what has happened.  But I suppose we probably won't ever really know what was going on with these kids.  When I was between 4 and 6, I was spending time with kids who were doing similar, maybe the same.  We all definitely knew what oral sex was and all about intercourse.  I wasn't molested, but it's certainly possible that one of the kids was.  I don't think this means that she or the boy has necessarily been molested.  They may be getting information from other kids.  

 

Someone said that that was much too young to know about oral sex.  I'm wondering if that's the consensus here.  I would have thought that a lot of kids would know the basics by that age.  


Jayne, sewing up a storm mama to ds1 9/03, ds2 2/09, and 2 sweet furbabies.

rubidoux is offline  
#33 of 35 Old 04-16-2012, 08:56 PM
 
Buzzer Beater's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,187
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)


Quote:
Originally Posted by rubidoux View Post

 

Someone said that that was much too young to know about oral sex.  I'm wondering if that's the consensus here.  I would have thought that a lot of kids would know the basics by that age.  



I'd have to agree with PP. I think that's unusually young to know about oral sex. As a child I certainly did not at that age and I was the youngest of 8 rowdy kids. What a relief nobody filled me in! My older dd was not aware of oral sex at that age either. Probably not until ten or so.

 

 

Buzzer Beater is offline  
#34 of 35 Old 04-17-2012, 12:15 PM
 
CrunchyChristianMama's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Kansas City, MO
Posts: 2,644
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 1 Post(s)


Quote:
Originally Posted by Buzzer Beater View Post



I'd have to agree with PP. I think that's unusually young to know about oral sex. As a child I certainly did not at that age and I was the youngest of 8 rowdy kids. What a relief nobody filled me in! My older dd was not aware of oral sex at that age either. Probably not until ten or so.

 

 




I didn't know what it was until high school. 


Elizabeth - Doing life with Scott partners.gif

SAHM to Evelyn - my crazy little Celiac (4) energy.gif Annabelle (2)  love.gif and Abraham (born 6/20) buddamomimg1.png
adoptionheart-1.gif  Follow our journey  mdcblog5.gif

CrunchyChristianMama is offline  
#35 of 35 Old 04-17-2012, 02:47 PM
 
Jen Muise's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2012
Posts: 233
Mentioned: 0 Post(s)
Tagged: 0 Thread(s)
Quoted: 0 Post(s)

I for sure didn't know about oral sex until I was pubescent; I'm sure my 6 and 9 yo kids don't know much beyond the idea that grownups enjoy sex (which they are skeptical of lol), and kissing and hugging feel nice.  They have a handle on the mechanics, but think of sex as what you do to have a baby.  I remember when I was in Gr 5 one of my friends smuggled some of his dad's stash of S&M porn; we were just confused by it.  No one of the 6 or so kids I remember examining the stuff had a clue what they were doing or why, whether it was the whips and chains or cum shots or more conventional but not baby making specific stuff.

Jen Muise is offline  
Reply

Tags
Child , Childhood , Children

Quick Reply
Message:
Drag and Drop File Upload
Drag files here to attach!
Upload Progress: 0
Options

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Mothering Forums forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Password:
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:

Log-in

Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



User Tag List

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Show Printable Version
Email this Page Email this Page


Forum Jump: 

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off