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Old 04-16-2012, 08:31 PM
 
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Report it to the school immediately.

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Old 04-16-2012, 09:48 PM
 
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I'm wondering what has happened.  But I suppose we probably won't ever really know what was going on with these kids.  When I was between 4 and 6, I was spending time with kids who were doing similar, maybe the same.  We all definitely knew what oral sex was and all about intercourse.  I wasn't molested, but it's certainly possible that one of the kids was.  I don't think this means that she or the boy has necessarily been molested.  They may be getting information from other kids.  

 

Someone said that that was much too young to know about oral sex.  I'm wondering if that's the consensus here.  I would have thought that a lot of kids would know the basics by that age.  


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Someone said that that was much too young to know about oral sex.  I'm wondering if that's the consensus here.  I would have thought that a lot of kids would know the basics by that age.  



I'd have to agree with PP. I think that's unusually young to know about oral sex. As a child I certainly did not at that age and I was the youngest of 8 rowdy kids. What a relief nobody filled me in! My older dd was not aware of oral sex at that age either. Probably not until ten or so.

 

 

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I'd have to agree with PP. I think that's unusually young to know about oral sex. As a child I certainly did not at that age and I was the youngest of 8 rowdy kids. What a relief nobody filled me in! My older dd was not aware of oral sex at that age either. Probably not until ten or so.

 

 




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I for sure didn't know about oral sex until I was pubescent; I'm sure my 6 and 9 yo kids don't know much beyond the idea that grownups enjoy sex (which they are skeptical of lol), and kissing and hugging feel nice.  They have a handle on the mechanics, but think of sex as what you do to have a baby.  I remember when I was in Gr 5 one of my friends smuggled some of his dad's stash of S&M porn; we were just confused by it.  No one of the 6 or so kids I remember examining the stuff had a clue what they were doing or why, whether it was the whips and chains or cum shots or more conventional but not baby making specific stuff.

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