From the time my ds saw me in the hospital with dd#1 he was very angry at me. He hit me, kick me, would not be in the same room with me.... Now he is 5, and he still has a hard time with his sister. He doesn't want her to touch him, sit next to him, talk to him and the sad part is she loves him so much and tries so hard to do the "right thing" for him and he never approves. We are an AP family, I am an at home mom, I breast fed ds for 2 yrs. and well, frankley this isn't what I expected to happen. We now have a dd#2 and ds loves her. Wants to hold her feed her protect her...why the anger "still" towards dd#1.
Any insight would be most appreciated.