I can't stand the trucks and sports themes either, and I have two boys. I buy some things at Gymboree and Baby Gap. Otherwise I go to children's resale shops and eBay and get everything super cheap. I like Hanna Andersson, Osh Kosh, Babymini par Catimini, Miniman, Jean Bourget, DPAM (Du Pareil Au Meme), and Ralph Lauren/Polo. It's often european brands I find that make "cute" stuff for boys. They're SUPER expensive new, but used they're just about as cheap as anything else. I also like the stuff on the Back From Bali website, but that's because I love batik fabric so much. Oh, and Mulberry Bush.
milk donation : mother to Ryan (6), AJ (5), Nate (2), Maia (1) all born at home, I have a kid-friendly food & bento blog, : :