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#151 of 157 Old 01-20-2007, 01:04 PM
 
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I guess my thought is that he'll know his secret is out. And, if another family reports it to her, she'll know for certain it wasn't MY son who miscontrued anything.



I hope I'm reading this wrong. I really do. It seems like you are saying that you would be willing to let this happen to another child so that your child wouldn't be perceived a liar by the dcp.

Please tell me I read this wrong.
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I finally finished the entire thread.

I'm very glad you reported. It sounds like you are struggling with some denial about what has happened. I'm sorry that you're having to go through this but I am so thankful that you chose to report this.
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I finally finished the entire thread.

I'm very glad you reported. It sounds like you are struggling with some denial about what has happened. I'm sorry that you're having to go through this but I am so thankful that you chose to report this.

Oh yes, absolutely struggling with a bit of denial here.

Ironically enough, because our dcp isn't a licensed one, CPS turned this over to the police dept and they don't plan to interview ds. : But, they did say that it will be "on the records" in case anything happens in the future.

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is there any update here?

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But, the 16yo also offered to take a lie detector test. :
Just another thought on this that I haven't seen brought up. Maybe deep down he wants to be caught. Often times the abused grow up to be abused. It's very possible this is the case with him. Maybe he wants help, but doesn't know how to ask for it.
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