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Happy March to my May Mamas! This month will bring health, prosperity, and happiness for all of us!

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gotta shower and get to store...
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lots to respond to but i just spend my web time posting pics in my sadly lacking blog. but you can see our back yard progress if ya wanna (and the baby quilts i made)
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i should shower and do something more productive around here.

i had a fairly awful experience at sears yesterday trying to get pictures. i bought the boys coordinating outfits and had visions of cherubic easter photos. lets just say we left without a single picture of them together and i wanted to throttle isaac. i'm talking jumping in front of the camera during ebin's pics, stabbing me in the back with keys, jumping on me, refusing to participate when it finally WAS his moment luckily i did get some cute pics of ebin and he is 9 months old today! i'll post a link oy.

i was *really* happy to get out last night for a mom's shindig. amymay was there and i told her i wanted to talk to her about pics (i'm thinking in may about doing their birthday pics with her). her card has our very own supercute LILY awwwwwwwwww!

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Oooh jstar, the yard looks great! What a nice deck/porch/patio. Our DHs should get together and talk man-talk about their recent decks sometime. Mine is out there right now, as-a-matter-of-fact. And I love the quilts. So cute. You are so crafty! I didn't know Amy had Lily's pic on her card. That is cool. Sorry you had a poopy photo shoot at Sears.

Fiddle - thinking of you, too. Hope the job stitch resolves. Nothing I hate worse than an unsure future with something that important.

Meesa - let us know how you're feeling. Getting better, I hope?

I want to hear from Jacquie, too. Any news about the future going on?

Yeah so our deck is almost done. Just need a little more wood (reclaimed from craigslist, hopefully) and it will be done. DH is finishing up the rest of the framing as we speak. It's huge. I wanted it this big, and I like it, but I think DH is a little peeved at how much of the yard it takes up. Oops.

Caught a baby early this morning! And now I'm home trying to do homework and hang with Lily at the same time. We're supposed to go out and do something fun for my birthday later this afternoon, since I am on call again tomorrow.

Sun is coming out again! w00t!

Hope everymama is feeling better and families are all on the mend. Good new month vibes. Let's forget the past and manifest a wonderful Spring!

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Sarah-bee, jstar & fiddle: what's a good evening to do a birthday celebration for you three mamas, just the mamas? do you have a spring break, Sarah, but probably on call...??? any day during the week is usually fine, but Mondays and Tuesdays are harder for me to coordinate since bill plays hockey one of those nights each week.
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hopefully we'll get to do some bbqing and admire each other's decks this summer i can't waaaaaaait for bbq season :

my dh has no boasting to do about his deck though because it was alllll jonathan. and i really like it


tuesday and thursdays are the worst nights for me to go out because i've already been gone from ebin during the day. fridays are good. saturdays are good.

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i'm here...no time to respond right now. Maybe later...dh is going out of town for a couple days, so it all depends on how well all that goes.

reading and following along....

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heya. checking in and subbing after a long day at work at the winery. looks like i might be able to increase my hours there for the time being. yay for not having to get a real job just yet.

gotta go figure out something to eat. very few options. uninspired.

oh! but i did make bread from scratch yesterday. soooo yummy.
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yeah, I've been a little slow to respond to stuff lately. Partly it's that since we set up A's crib in our office, when she goes to bed at night I don't get any computer time. Unless it's on dh's laptop,which I'm on now. But, he's leaving tomorrow afternoon so laptop will be gone.

No job news here for now. The MA option seems to have fizzled for now. He's not gotten any more info from them, so we're thinking he didn't make their next cut. Which is okay. Because the Kansas prospect seems to be heating up. They will be visiting him on our turf in the next couple weeks, which is kinda fun.

The trip he's taking this week is not job-related. He's just going back to Austin for a lecture and visit with his clergy-former-classmate peeps. G and I went with him last year, but couldn't manage all the airfare this time, so we're staying. Please hope G handles this absence of his daddy better than last time. It was tough. And A has a runny nose and has been sleeping poorly....I hope she gives me a break when he's gone.

Renae-hoping potty learning is going okay. G still wears a pull-up at naptime and bedtime, so it's not wimping out (I don't think) just being realistic. Before A was born, dh was trying to get up every few hours and take G to the toilet, but he soon got weary of not getting a full night's sleep (go figure). It will happen eventually.

jstar-loved looking at your blog! yard is great. Ebin is so big! Can't wait to see the Sears pics, though I'm sorry Isaac was the way he was. Crawling...yikes. I guess we're just a little bit away from that. A turned 7 months and now is miss sitter-upper...mostly by herself. Doesn't it seem to be going faster the 2nd time???

megan-sorry the tax info wasn't what you thought. But, I'm glad you can work out something at the winery. Working real jobs suck, I agree with you on that one.

mcsarah-yay for graduating with everyone else! That's exciting. And, catching a baby! Coolness.

KK-yay on good possibilities for dh's job. And, for you too. Let's hope the right option is just around the corner for all involved.

danile-moving is no fun. Been there, done that once a year almost since G was born. I feel your pain (and am about to feel it again, I do believe). Hang in there. You are superwoman to do it while having such a newborn and being a full-time student.

heatherfeather-yay for good chiro adjustments. Glad HJ was laying down on the job (so to speak).

I know I'm forgetting some of you, but I'm tired and can't remember what everyone wrote! Love to all, anyway.
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good luck while dh is out of town jacquie. i hope it goes smoothly! it sounds like a fun getaway for your dh....they need those sometimes

in some ways it really does seem to go faster the 2nd time. i think ebin just hit the point of rapid change. for so long he could sit up but couldn't 'get down' from sitting. so he would be stuck and i could sit him down with some toys and he'd stay for quite a while playing. then he was rolling with increasing aim for a couple of months. he finally started crawling ~feb 11th super jerkily. and within 2 weeks he is pulling up and crawling everywhere and attempting to climb the stairs. he's also coordinated his legs to walk if you are holding his hands and he just laughs like this is hilarious. so cute. so now we are in HAZARDBABY mode!! we need a baby gate for the living room...like today! he's also getting much better with finger foods which is nice. i can see him changing to wobbler before my eyes *sniff sniff* crawling babies are about the cutest thing though

i posted my pics oy.

i'm thinking good thoughts for mr. kk's interview. and that was some good bullying re: the suit! i hope mama kk gets the position on the board too

good news on more hours at the winery meg i think that sounds like a fun job.

the childcare juggling/work thing is only worthwhile i think if it gives good financial (or mental) benefit for going through the rigaramole. i spent most of last thursday doing that insurance application (ie. not working on billable stuff which would pay for the babysitting). and then she emails 'oops wrong application..engineers have to do this one' :: so irked.

about the mama's b-day night out...beth works f-sun i think so maybe a wed night would work best for all?
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Hi, all!

pdxmmf- yes, Wednesdays work best for me. I could also do M or Tu, but it sounds like other couldn't. ooooh, this'll be fun! Haven't seen Sarahbee in a long time, so hopefully we can get together.

My job sitch: so.... last year some time (maybe 6 months ago? maybe more?), I think I posted that my company didn't want people who were related working at the same site. I have been waiting EVER SINCE to be transferred. The company has been wanting me to take on more staff training responsibilities (and that behavior plan job), but I kept saying I wouldn't do it until AFTER I'd been transferred and got used to my new group home.

I got wind in early Feb that they WEREN'T planning on transferring me anywhere, they just wanted me to start the behavior plan job. But noone was talking to me, noone was doing anything. Finally, I forced their hand and gave notice at dh's group home. I showed up at the main office and just started working on staff training stuff.

Well, two days after I did that, the board met, and slashed the admin budget, laying off my co-worker. Plus, the behavior plan job has been put on the back burner. So suddenly I was looking at not having a job at all after Friday. Scary! Then Friday I met with the exec dir., and he told me I was being transferred to another group home. At first I felt happy to have a job, but then I realized...

ARGH! So now I've got to learn all this new stuff at a new group home (and one that's run really poorly, whereas my dh manages very well, if I do say so myself). PLUS I have all this new training responsibility. All at once. I don't know my hours, but they will suck, and I have to pay a bunch more in the new childcare I've set up. So, more work, more childcare $, less time with fam, no more pay. I make $9.19 an hour. I am not happy. I am applying for a subbing teaching licence, and loooking into whether I can get unemployment in the summers if I'm a part-time sub. I really want to stay and help my company, but unless they give me a substantial raise, I can't afford to do that, financially or personally.

I am grateful to have a job, at least.

So, that's all about me.
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Jess, I really loved your quilt pix and yard pix. (and I laughed and laughed about the non-cherubic pix...) (Ooh, and I talked with some of my fellow MGs about the contorted filbert yesterday... you're corrupting people *far* away from home...)

Very cool on baby-catching. I am (always) so in awe. It's the kind of thing that theoretically, I think *I* would like to do, but I am such a wimp, and I'd be passing out every time. :

Jacquie, if your dh didn't get the MA option, then it's *their* loss, for sure. Vibing strongly for Kansas (UU version of prayer ). I hope G and A are *EASY* during his next trip.

Dudes, #3 is even *faster*.

Oh, Ferny, that job stuff totally suxors. (Doesn't sound like they plan well.) You would be happier being a sub, wouldn't you? (But I suppose childcare might be more sporadic/difficult?) How *would* that work out in terms of seeing your dh/etc? (I can't quite recall how you guys were arranging hours/childcare.)

It was 70 here yesterday, 30ish today, 5" of snow. I finally potted up my African violet starts (an appropriate end to the day; I went to a MG workshop with a bunch of little old ladies) and picked more worms out of my compost for our inside worm bin. (The worms already in the bin are *much* fatter than when I put them in, so I take it that the plush life of eating banana peels in the living room at room temperature is much better than egg shells in the big bin in the cold out of doors.)
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ferny---that really stinks. more work essentially equals less pay--blah! I should convince dh to move to pdx....I would totally watch your babes for nada. **hugs**

feelin' way behind on catching up with everyone---apologies! more vitamins= back to normal soon I hope.

kk---thanks for the thoughts re: garden....I got some books for her and we will probably do a couple planter boxes for her....I just need to get her to narrow down her veggie choices---she has like 12 that she wants to plant!


busy week ahead...have to take back the baby scale to the LC tomorrow. um don't need it anymore! I do have another cool digi scale that I got from a p2p mama and will use that for weight checks, but I'm hoping we're over the hump w/ those issues. Please. pretty please universe???


jacquie---you're awesomeness for going with the flow while dh sorts out job stuff is inspiring.


question, mamas....would you all attempt a road trip with three in tow?? We're having our bathroom remodeled and I'm debating just going to CT or going on a longer road trip to see another mdc mama. Pros? Cons? I would prefer to do the latter, just need someone to talk me down if a 12hr distance is insanity or not? (would break up the driving)

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HF: good choices are things that fit one or more of these criteria:
--big seeds (easy to plant by themselves: beans, sunflowers, pumpkins/squash, corn
--grow fast/easy: radishes, marigolds
--fun to eat/harvest: peas or snap peas, cherry tomatoes, strawberries (both as transplants), decorative gourds

I did a road trip last spring break with all 3 (to W. Colo to see the g'parents). The travelling itself wasn't so bad, but we all got really sick (ear infections, snot/congestion, fever, pinkeye), and *that* was hellish (I dunno if you remember it, but between the four of us, we went through a whole bottle of children's ibuprofen in a week : note: children's ibuprofen is yummy . Pros: with 3, they can do a lot of entertaining themselves. Cons: not a lot of help, unfamiliar setting. (Are you going to a childproofed home? I didn't, and that was a PITA.)
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HF- I think a 12 hr road trip wouldn't be toooooo bad if you broke it up into 2 days. I am SO EXCITED that HJ is doing better on the eating front. It warmed my heart to hear you talking about nursing him at night. I know you are totally exhausted and that sucks, but I remember how hard you had to work to pump all the time for E, and I am so happy for you that you are able to nurse with HJ. . It would be cool if you moved to PDX- I felt all warm and fuzzy about the virtual childcare. .

Of course, my good friend that's watching them now isn't ASKING for $10/ hr (yes, more than I make- but dh watches the kids more days than her), it's just what I insist on giving her. Just because I don't get paid a fair wage doesn't mean it's ok for me to give an unfair wage to the people who watch my kids- a most important job! I recently gave my teenage homeschooling sitter a raise to $9/hr (since she's alone with the kids now, not watching them in the group home), but I'm kind of regretting it, because her quality of care isn't _that_ high (she lets them watch too much TV, and isn't always proactive about problem-solving the sibling rivalry before it gets out of hand). I'm talking to her about both things, though, so hopefully the care will improve.

KK- funny about the worms getting fat from a posh indoor life. In answer to your question, I was working W 4 hrs, then Friday afternoon to Saturday night, 27 hrs straight. We had a teen helper 5 hrs a week at the group home. The past coupla weeks, I've been working Th (dh stays home), F (nanny friend), and then Fr night- Sat night (dh). With the new job, I'll be working F(nanny friend), and then 22 more hours, days/times as yet to be determined. If I switched to subbing, dh would work M,Tu, F, Sa, and I would work W, Th, F, assuming I was called in. The pay is more than twice as much, and I'm pretty sure I could work most days as a middle school math sub, but then there's the problem of the summers, and getting on dh's health insurance outside an enrollment period.

Wow, turned into another all-about-me post. Sorry, folks!
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I'm being driven nuts one sleepless night at a time. No sleep yet going on 3am. Every time I'm almost asleep, the little dude starts whimpering --dang cold. Please let it not be rsv or anything of the like. Don't know if it's just the laryngomalacia that makes it worse?

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Heather - I'm feeling ya on the sleepless nights. How you manage all you do on any given day is amazing. Thinking continued : for HJ, and wishing for some for both of you!

fern, the work sitch sounds tough. More work and less pay (or even not more pay) is a rather maddening scenario.

jstar thanks for sharing pics!

I have to run. Today is a logistical nightmare and I haven't got it all figured out yet. I'm *finally* nearing 'normal' (healthwise. otherwise, keep yer trap shut ) I missed half the week at work last week (bad, especially when I'm planning a week and a half off at the end of this month). TODAY, the kids' grandmas are sick (they usually keep Ethan from 12:00 and pick the girls up at school so I can work late), Allison has a low fever and Marcy (who keeps Ethan Tues thru Thurs) can take Ethan before 3:00 and after 4:00, but not from 3-4 (the middle of my workday). I CANNOT MISS ANOTHER DAY IN THE OFFICE. I just can't. So I'm looking at taking Ethan to Marcy's this morning, taking Allison to the ped (she already has an appointment to follow up on the UTI) and then possibly taking Allison to work with me. if she seems well, I'll take her to school. And now I get to rearrange my schedule so that I can go pick Ethan up at 3:00, bring him to the office for an hour, and then take him back at 4:00. This is making me very : I am not panicking, I am not stressing (very much) I have faith that this day will work itself out in exactly the way it needs to, and everything will be fine.

Do I sound convincing?
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i feel sick to my stomach, and it's not the tummy bug that's going around. i feel like i am in junior high school again.
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i hope you can remember which kid is where juice that sounds complicated!! oh and btw you gave me an adjustment in my dream the other night! cool. i wish it had been real


Dudes, #3 is even *faster*. <----- KK's quote. i was thinking in regards to it going faster that time is on heather's side and hopefully HJ will start growing out of some of the feeding troubles. and it looks like he is! but not going to sleep before 3am is HARD. so rough! i wish i could take him off your hands and let you crawl away to a bed somewhere. i turn into 'mad mommy' when that kind of thing happens. talking between clenched teeth 'go.to.sleep.now!' but of course the mama can always deal because there aren't many other options at 3am.

i need to call the ped for a followup ear check today because it has been 2 weeks. i am doubtful the infection is cleared up because he is shaking his head constantly. but it could be teeth. but he is also waking every 2 hours on the dot and screaming at top vol so who knows.

happy birthday KK! my dad is 60 today. with his super-bad bladder cancer in his early 50s i am VERY happy he is 60

and that is awsome about the contorted filbert. the fam was driving in the car on saturday and i said 'ooooh look at that full-grown contorted filbert!!' doug says 'no wonder you drive so slow if you're looking at plants!' i'm always looking at plants i have favorites around town

beth - i hope the subbing thing works out. i bet you're an awesome (patient!) math teacher


well it is poopy and grey and sorta rainy out but i have a wheelbarrow full of daylilies that need to get in the ground. i've lost my gardening momentum. maybe they can wait until wednesday :
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jstar, thanks for the chuckle. I haven't lost a kid yet (fingers crossed) and the day actually smoothed itself out somewhat - I got Allison in to see her doc early, she went to school without complaint. So now I just have to go to work, run and get Ethan for an hour, and take him back. DH will have to do pickups, so he'll get the girls, come to my office to switch cars (can't get three seats in the 1997 Honda Civic) and then get Mr. E. I have already made dinner for the evening (white bean and roasted garlic soup, oh YUM) so aside from the general chaos of it, it's all well managed

I *love* that I adjusted you in a dream! I wish it was real, too. In fact, I wish I could figure out how to adjust people over the phone, so I wouldn't have to go to the office. I could really cut my overhead that way.

TC, it sounds like a rough time.

Hey elsanne, how was your time ALONE?
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Oh yeah, its March...!

I am at work with a baby and Rowan, so I have .0000005 seconds of time but I wanted to subscribe!
So this is me subscribin'!

No worries on any of the potty stuff. Rowan pooped all kinds of times at Gramma's house this weekend. And the potty adventure is doing well! I think...I guess.

Oh, and more soon about THIS, because it's HUGE...Rowan will be attending the Waldorf school starting in SEPTEMBER...if all goes well. OMFG!

Like I said, i will elaborate soon! I am SO : about it!

Love and xoxoxoxoxo's to each and every one of you!

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Elsanne in the hizz-ouse!

My time alone was blessedly beautimous. Loved it. One of the best parts was the drive there--2.5 hrs alone, rockin' out in the car, feelin' all road-trip-free. Totally great. The workshop was great, made great money, everyone was happy, life is good. Viet and I are okay now, he had a real wakeup call in terms of the work of having both by himself, and he's being relatively helpful.

Renae, coolness about the waldorf school! You are inspiring me to maybe sign Sol up for next year. Not sure yet.

Juice how did the day go? Is it flowin'?

Oh Heath, please tell me you got some sleep???? And that he is okay? This is just getting out of hand. You needs you some rest.

Fern--paying more for your sitter than you are earning? That's just wrong!!! Would you rather be at work? Why even bother? *here's me, not getting it*...so sorry about the changes at work.

Jacquie how goes the time alone? Thinking of you.
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Els- must work 30 hrs to have health insurance- dh can't cover all my hrs, so we have a sitter for 8 of 'em. Old schedule just needed 5 hrs sitter coverage.

Your road trip sounds wonderful.

Claudia- I'm so sorry
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Claudia---just wishing I could give you a huge, warm hug---you know the kind where you get your hair stroked too....that kind. a line from a song that is my refrain at times like these ... "let your clarity define you" You are kind and warm and compassionate and have an innate ability to reach out to those (including me!) when they most need it.

els---woot! I get small doses of alone time these days and I cherish it. I am totally a car singer when alone. Hope there's more for you in the future!

ff---thinking of you guys as you get this family/work/sitter sitch sorted out.


HJ is a puzzle. His fever is lower (good), but the cough is worse and gaggy at times. I have almost no kid cold experience (insert ducking smilie) so I'm just letting it play out. He has been happy and playing when not whimpering and gag coughing and is eating like a champ and pooping like one too. His first up the back, outfit destroying poo. First of my three kids to do that. Could have something to do w/ the pampers that he had on for out of the house. Um, yeah, huggies flex are better (insert bag smilie) S'ok...we still use cloth at home and the vegan nuns absolve me from guilt for ruining the earth on account of the thousands of cloth diaper changes I've accrued in the last almost 4 years.

I'm just babbling....should be taking this quiet time to get going on my online digital scrapbooking class I signed up for. SO EXCITED! I've never scrapped before and I loves me some Photoshop so this will be great! It has online screenshot video tutorials and everything! Okay...off to play!

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mmm. fun day for us. isaac stepped up on the side of the FULL shopping cart at TJs and it fell over on top of him. flying groceries and severe screaming ensued. ebin has like a 4-egg goose egg on his head and we will now call him lumpy. ironically the goose-egg is on the opposite side of his head from his flat spot so i think it looks even more pronounced. it might not have even been noticeable if he had hit the flat side. but he's ok. (well i'm sure he has a headache). i abandoned the groceries and headed to the ER. no CAT scan required. and i made doug go get the groceries because by golly i was done shopping and there was no way i was going through the shopping exercise again tomorrow!!! isaac has a few bruises and was stuck to me like glue after i got home (he was obviously a little shaken).

i really hope we don't contract anything super nasty from sitting in the ER for several hours. this one kid who was sitting by isaac watching a cartoon went in for the screening and then came out with a mask on. and then he didn't want to keep it on (because he's a kid) but his dad kept reminding him to put it on when he coughed. and there were several other people flopped on chairs and looking extremely ill. they should make inflatable bubbles which could be carried in diaper bags.

so i feel like stellar mother of the year at the moment. totally scary. one minute you're looking at eggs and the next second all hell is breaking loose where's the waaahhhh smilie. i wanted to cry too.

i think i will head to bed. oddly enough isaac is in his own bed. i sent him back up there alone after he had his toast (*begged* for toast after the whole storytime routine). he's been sleeping in my bed almost all the time lately. strange!

the good news is that ebin's ears are all clear! now i can cancel that appt. for wednesday

renae - that is totally cool about the waldorf school

elsanne - driving alone on the open road sounds like fun
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Ack, Jess, that's a lot of carp! I'm so sorry, and so glad everyone's OK. LOL at "lumpy" though, that's totally something we'd call him. Hopefully today is more peaceful.

An amazing thing happened last night - Ethan slept from 8:00 straight through until 4:30 this morning! And then got up for the day. Poor bug is going to be pretty tired by naptime (actually he's pretty tired already, but I can't do anything about that for him right now).

Remember that massage I was supposed to have, what, two weeks ago? Well, we rescheduled it for last week and then I was sick as a dog, so we rescheduled for this afternoon. Fingers crossed we get to keep the appointment!

Have a beautiful day, everymama.

(ETA - yesterday went more smoothly than I would have hoped. All in all, difficult but manageable. Kudos to DH for stepping up and helping where he could.)
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juice--hope you get your massage in today! glad yesterday went!

jstar--oh no! That's awful. C loves to jump on the side of the cart. Did the manager say anything? I mean...eek....unsafe carts! Hows the egghead this morning??

Sleep was a little better last night thank goddess. But cold is still getting worse. Still not sure what to make of it or if I should call the peds. He's snoozing now, but I'll have to take his temp when he wakes. He felt warmy through the night.

Crazy warm weather here today so we're heading outside at some point!

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I wrote this big beautiful post last night and it got lost, so I said screw it, went to bed and now I'm trying again.

I have to say that I'm totally jealous of the new deck. I want one reaaalllly bad and I'm not sure why exactly...

Juice~ Enjoy your massage! I need one of those. I'm glad yesterday went ok and that you were able to figure out where everyone was, because I didn't have a clue

jstar~ That is like one of my nightmares come true! Saige always does that, now I'm freaked out. I'm glad everyone is ok. I wish Kade slept that long, he was up last night for an hour at 1 am screaming.


Heather~ Keeping my fingers crossed that the scale stays away and that you were able to get some sleep last night.

Els~ I'm glad you had a good time, you totally deserve it

Renae~ That's awesome about the waldorf school. I bet he will totally love it.

I've been spring cleaning around here like a mad woman I took a break yesterday and made a mei tai. It came out of nowhere. One minute I was looking at them online, the next I was in the fabric store picking out fabric. For my first try, I think it turned out pretty nice. Here are some pics:

Saige

Tired and spaghetti faced

Kade

I know I talked with someone about The Sneaky Chef cookbook and something similar, but I can't remember who. I made the brownies the other day, which have spinach, blueberries, wheat germ and oats in them, and omg they were good! I ate most of them by myself, some of them were considered breakfast :
I'm off to work, have a great day!
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Meesa, those brownies sound NUMMY! What a great idea. I need to think about things like that especially because the CSA is catching up with me--I have greens from last week and today is delivery day.
Also want to say the mei tai looks great! Yay for crafty projects.

Last night some friends arrived, so they are making breakfast this morning, yay!

Juice I am *this* close to flying you down here in exchange for daily adjustments. I am so tired of this neck o mine, and my doc isn't in town for some time yet. Also want to say, that the person you recommended in Albuquerque, is great! And costs less than my doc down here--!!! Her last name, Riekeman, she shares with her brother, who is president (or whatever) of Life University! Get that!
Also totally thrilled for you that you might, just might, get a massage today!

more to say but internet time has just been kiboshed.
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Wow, Jess. So sorry! (I'm a little amused that you made Doug get the groceries, though--smart thinking!). Glad everyone's okay, and I hope you don't pick up the ER bug.

Woot on dhs stepping up when they should (fingers crossed on the massage).

I should try the Sneaky Chef... (and I can't get the pix to load).

Renae, I want to hear about preschool!

TC, thinking of you.

Just aiming to have a better day today. I have a MG meeting tonight that I am strangely looking forward to... it's for our big annual plant sale (am I getting involved so I can prebuy all the plants for myself? hmm...). My proposed role is to help make it a zero waste event. And one of our biggest local env. organizations subsidizes collections of xeric plants every year, and the order form came out yesterday. Definitely gonna buy some, because the price is just too good. (Yeah, I've got gardening on my mind, even if there's snow on the ground.)
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