um - well, I thnk you'd best talk with her about what she can expect to be allowed to do in your home.
My dd is 9 and would probably drool over your extensive art supplies! Paint, scrachies, pastels, how to draw books, whiteboards, glue projects, scrapbooking, beading, looming, finger knitting - these are all things my dd does w/out my assistance now. When they are around (yarn, glue, whiteboard, beads, etc.). My dd doesn't love reading either (though she is good at it), but she loves doing PBS on the computer (or webkins or club penguin - I let her have about 30 min/day).
She will play outside a lot (scooter, bike, skates, chalk).
She likes to do stuff like bake, make shakes/smoothies, do crosswords, and she still plays with dolls, felts, and she LOVES games like sorry, mousetrap, star words, gnip-gnop, monopoly, master mind, card games like gin rummy, and whatever else you may have that work for your boys.
The other thing that she likes doing is beautify - nails, toenails, make-up, hair styles.
I hope that helps!?!
Mama to B and O , wife to J and me to me! :