DD1 was a birth control baby
DD2 on the way took us 7 cycles of actively trying to get lucky. Sadly, 7 seems to be the lucky number for a lot of women, including those who have already had kids before!
(We were using NFP with great timing... and neither of us had any known problems. We just seriously took that long to get lucky!)
Mom to DS 12/07 and DD 11/13, plus a bunch of chickens, dogs, and cats.
Moving past many years of infertility and always thinking of my friends in the infertility forums.
Pregnancy #2 = preggo first try and ds is 33 months
TTC #3 going on five cycles = all bfns
DD was conceived in the second cycle of trying. DS1 was a *total* oops. DS2 took many months, charting, acupuncture, natural "remedies", OPK's, ferning scope and so on. I don't remember how long it took, but it was quite a while. Then with DS3 we got him on the first cycle trying! I'm not sure what was going on when we tried to conceive DS2, but things can definitely change.
Wife to DH, Mom to DD (5/14/04) and our IVF miracle DS (10/12/12)!!
We started trying for #2 when DS was 9 months old.
DS just turned 6 last month.
We've had a couple issues. I seem to be massively sensitive to hormones. For instance, we knew I had conceived the day after it happened as my entire being changed...a week later I was up one cup size and growing massive blue veins in my chest, passing out by 8pm (on our honeymoon cruise, and I missed the midnight chocolate buffet), and smelling *everything*.
So since DS nursed like a typical newborn until he was pretty much 3yo...even though I got my period back when he was 4 months old (can I just say how UNFAIR that was????? I did everything "right", but as soon as I couldn't nap with him, BOOM there it was...oh, and I'd had lochia for most of that time as well...UNFAIR), I just wasn't fertile.
In the meantime, it turns out, DH was developing a pituitary tumor that caused his body to make prolactin. Wrong hormone for a guy! That went undiagnosed for about 3 years, we believe, from looking back at the symptoms that the MDs and NDs he saw blatantly ignored, wanting to blame his weight. Well, since the weight gain was being caused by the prolactinoma...that was not cool of them. Finally ended up in a series of health events that got him to an endocrinologist who was just cool enough to let us insist that he test the sex hormones, and that is how we found the prolactinoma. Thank goodness for that dude.
So now DH is treating that. And because the prolactin messed up his testosterone (it was so low his endo has NO idea how DH could do his part in trying), but taking regular testosterone would actually *cause* infertility during the period of time he would take it...he's now doing HCG injections to help his body create testosterone...and it's possible I had a miscarriage the other month, which is more than I've had since 2005! I actually got to Day 31, which was pretty exciting.
So we've had some stuff that isn't normal or typical, but it's what has happened!
4th took a year of ttc to get pregnant and miscarried
5th took another year after miscarriage to get pregnant with my little girl I am currently expecting
We easily got pregnant with our first two, both times the first month we tried. We are currently ttc and haven't had the same luck. We've been trying for about 5 months now, using NFP to time things well but we're not having luck. We got pregnant our second month trying but miscarried a week later and haven't been able to get pregnant since. I know it's not a super long time to be ttc compared to some, but it's just so unexpected since it was so fast and easy before. Anyone have a similar experience?
DD2- one year
DS- first time
We started trying with DS sooner just because I knew it would take a while, apparently you can never plan these things.
#1 just got off the pill in july, started ttc in sept got pregnant in december.
#2 took a month shy of the 1yr mark and 2 back to back miscarriages.
We are ttc #3 and have been for almost 3 years
Harlan (11/4/2011)http://www.desertreadingloft.com--Independent Usborne Books Consultant
Ds was unplanned, of course we were only using withdrawal methods and had an oops with the method about 3 months after we were married.
weaned ds at 28 months began ttc#2 when ds was 34 months, had a BFP four months later, one month that we didn't even try and then misscarried 3 days later.
So still ttc we are at 12 months sinces intial ttc date and 9 months since the misscarriage.
Anyone wonder if actually having the 1st child changes your ability to have more children? I am beginning to wonder, perhaps hormonal or physiological?
When ds was concieved i had just turned 23, and i've heard so much that 26 is the best age the women's eggs are the best quality at 26 blah blah blah, then why is it so hard ttc this time around as i started when i was 26 and now i will be 28 in just a few short months?
the past week has been hard on me, miscarriage babies due date was yesterday, everyone i've every know seems to be getting preggo, we missed the fertile days this cycle as i got a yeast infection and wanted to clear it up before bd again.
ah, well, guess there's always next month. Finally got TTOYF from the library, reading it like crazy now...Hope it helps
Baby 1 - 2 months TTC. Miscarried.
DS - 3 months TTC. Now 3 years old
Baby 3 - 1 month TTC. Miscarried
Baby 4 - 1 YEAR TTC. Miscarried
Hoping Baby 5 will be easier than Baby 4 to conceive. I was happy to see Peony and Kimmiepie's stories. Maybe luck does sometimes change for the better!