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#1 of 12 Old 06-14-2010, 12:20 AM - Thread Starter
 
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So my dd just turned 1 on 4/18. I had my first cycle starting May 17, but it lasted 14 days!

So today I took a test (feel like morning sickness) and it is a dark two lines.

Now I am concerned that:

a) I may have miscarried and that is just left over hormones

b) I miscarried a baby but am still pregnant with another.

c) I have been preggo all along and was spotting???

d) Just got pregnant after 2 week period.

What is most likely? I leave for a 9 day business trip in the morning so I can not get to a midwife.

It is bothering me. :

PS If I am preggo, I am I am just scared that something bad happened.

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I need to finish packing, but I feel so anxious.

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You have been BFing the whole first year for your DD, right? This was your first post partum AF due to BF right?

I would assume answer D.

When I had dd2, even though I was exclusively BF, I did get AF at 8wks pp, on the dot, after bleeding for 6 wks. And I still had almost 10 days of bleeding with that AF. In fact, that whole first year, AF was pretty awful-long and painful.

When I tested positive for this pg, the lines came up very dark, right away. Due to medications that had messed up my cycle, I didn't have a clue how far along I was, but my blood test and u/s for dating indicated that I was approx. 5 wks when I tested. With dd2, I tested WAY early and the lines started so faint, so I wasn't used to seeing the dark, immediate lines that I saw with this one.

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We are still breast feeding.

Thank you for the congrats

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No one else responded, so I am assuming everyone agrees with happysmilieylady.

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Well, when I wanted to conceive baby #3, I stopped taking my bc pill. I immediately started bleeding & kept it up for about 2 weeks. As it all turned out, I conceived that baby on one of the last days I was bleeding! What a bizarre time my body chose to ovulate, but it did. I got a bfp about 10 days later.

I just wanted to share my story because I think choice D is quite likely.

Congratulations to you either way, I'm sure you are pregnant!

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Oh, PS., I just saw your signature & laughed because I've said that about evolution for so long!! Although I say we'd have 4 arms.

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I'd assume D as well.

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Congrats!!!

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Well it ends up it was C.

I am almost 9 WEEKS along!!! I had was pregnant when i was bleeding. Baby looks good and huge! :

Thank you all for your input!

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Nine weeks!? Wow! Congratulations!!

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Nine weeks!? Wow! Congratulations!!
Thanks

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