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#1 of 2 Old 02-21-2011, 05:46 PM - Thread Starter
 
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So dh and I just welcomed our #3, and up to now, 3 was the plan.  I am now feeling absolutely devastated at that thought.  I look around at our happy, loud home, and feel like we are getting there instead of completed.  So I guess what I wan to know is, how do you know when you are really through having children?  It seems crazy to me, ds #2 is only 1 month old, but I just feel this insatiable urge to have more.  Personal experiences please!  Just want to know if this is crazy...


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Ds #3 is only 1 month old?  Have you talked to your partner about these feelings?  Sometimes once a family is set on an idea, both people just accept it as it is.  If you are feeling unfinished, its worth talking to DH about.


 
 
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