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I really need help :/
Idk if this is even the right forum to post in for this, but I really need some opinions.
I'm 28 weeks pregnant right now.
When I trace back to when I concived, fatherhood gets a little iffy....
I don't want to sound like a whore, because I'm far from it.
That week I was at my best friends house drinking a little and we've had a history of hooking up. That night we did have unprotected sex.
Later that week, I started casually seeing someone. We did fool around a lot sooner then I'd like to admit, but we did use a condom.
I'm going crazy now because it's so close to my due date, and I don't kow what to do anymore.
I have so many feelings for my friend, who I truly believe is the father, but he doesn't want to fully take the step as being a couple until we know for sure if he is or not, which I fully understand. It just hurts so much. All I want is to know if he is or not, but prebirth paternity blood test cost so much and I simply can't afford it right now.
Who do you guys think is more likely to be the father? I want to know honest opinions too.
This whole time my best friend has been there for me through all this, but the closer I am to giving birth, the more distant he becomes. The other guy doesn't even know I'm pregnant, and I haven't even heard from him since we broke things off. I didn't even know I was pregnant until a month later, I had had my period a week after I conceived.
What should I do here?
Do OB offices offer a cheaper blood test, does insurance even cover things like that?
I just have so many questions, I don't know where to begin to get answers.
I just need help right now.