I'm freaking out a little. We have 3 kids and I don't want a fourth. I love my kids but I have just lost the weight from ds and I'm starting to feel good about myself again. I love my kids and I'm happy with 3. I can't go on the pill or any form of bc. It makes me violently ill. We use condoms and so far so good. My period is due and it seems like it's on it's way. However it's been 3 days and I am only spotting. I have no other pms symptoms which I always get, bloating and cramping. I spotted throughout my last 2 pg so seeing pink does not mean I'm in the clear. However, the spotting has always happened later. We had sex 2 weeks ago and used a condom. I'm freaking out. I don't want to spend $20 on a test. Am I just being freaky? Should I calm down or should I worry?