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#601 of 846 Old 12-04-2009, 10:01 PM
 
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...It feels good to reconnect with you all here. I spend a lot of time on facebook but instantly sought this tribe out when my friend called upon me for advice.
Hi Lisa,

I feel the same way about this tribe that you do! And I am going to try to come here at least weekly to post so we can keep this tribe active!
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I'm around but this is the beginning of my busy season. The agency that I run does special holiday assistance programs and this year I decided to add a new piece and it's chaos. We are doing a lot in the community but I am tired...then after the holidays I have several grant deadlines that will be hitting back to back. So while I tend to be around it's more scan and go.

As for the kiddos, the son is sending out his college applications so we will start the waiting game. My baby graduates HS in June...where does the time go? I swear it seems like he was just born, I am not sure if I mentioned he got his own car. Yikes.

My dd is my mini me aka the mini diva, I love her to death but girl energy is so different than boy energy at least for me...all in all I am good, could complain but no use trying.

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checking in....
I am doing great. I am in the throes of holiday stuff and enjoying it. I put my tree up this weekend and though I have much more to do, I feel pretty good. You all might recall, I had a basement flood last spring and lost ALL of my Christmas decorations and needed to purchase new stuff. I had some really pretty purple stuff that I will never be able to replace---such a bummer. Not sure where DH and I will be spending Christmas...maybe Virginia or Maryland. Our lives are so complicated *sigh*

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My family and I have attended a church for almost two years. We are not members, but we are active participants. I teach church school classes about twice a year(parents volunteer to teach for a month at a time), I work with the youth group and I recently decided to work with the social committee.

Andrew has quite a few friends, and I am friends or associates with the parents of his friends. Some I am closer to than other. For the most part we share similarities in how we parent our children, but there are a few differences. The most obvious difference is that I don't spank. I will admit to having swatted his bottom a few times when I am overly frustrated, but I am diligent about calming myself down until I am able to better process a solution to the problem at hand.

Most if not all of the children at the church are able to sit through a two to three hour service. Some are spanked if they make noise or fidget too much, some are scolded, some are fed snack on demand to keep the peace, and some are just children with a quiet patient nature. All of the children are with a year range of age, be it younger or older. We go to church school, and have attempted in the past to stay until the Children's Story during worship, which is about 1 hour into the service. It is a long hour. I don't expect for my 3 year old to sit quietly for an hour, nor do I feel comfortable with him disturbing others. There is not a nursery, only a cry room which I generally avoid, because Andrew tends to want to play with the other children. Again, I know that this is normal behavior, but the other parents want for their children to sit quietly and eat their snacks. I respect their desires, so we generally leave right after children's story.


Because of my child's energetic and bubbly personality, and his inability to sit still for more than 15-20 minutes he is viewed by many as "bad", or a "problem". One parent teaching the class told Andrew that he needed to get rid of his energy before class began. I interjected and told her that having too much energy was not a negative attribute. (this is from a mom who told me that my son looks as if he is not spanked . She is not a friend, but a mom who spanks her young 2 year-old so that he will sit through the service)

I take worship seriously, but I also believe that it is not always suitable for children. Until I was 6 or 7, I only attended church school.


Last night I was to work a table at the Children's Christmas craft program. DH was at work, so Andrew was not under my general supervision. I had my eye on him but I was busy. We arrived at 4 to begin set up for a 6 o'clock program. Between 5 and 6, Andrew was playing with the other children. When he plays, Andrew goes into a zone. He plays hard. He was playing with 4 children. A 5 year old, another 3 year old and a 10 year old. The 10 year old said that Andrew spot on him. He did , but they were making growling, hissing sounds. This I saw with my own eyes, but to me it was a mistake. I talked to him about being careful and that spitting is nasty and we should not spit on our friends, etc, etc. The mom, a friend, was annoyed and said something to Andrew. She then came to me and said that I needed to be firmer with him, and that other parents would have/have a problem because I was only talking to him and not being hard enough. She then went on to say that her daughter use to spit and she spanked her and she has not spit since.

I have a serious problem with this, because I don't parent my child to please someone else. I told her that the method that I use was sufficient for our needs and that I was not interested in parenting my child to appeal to others.

Less than 15 minutes later the children were wrestling, and Andrew kicked the her son. I called for Andrew to come and sit next to me. We talked about his behavior, I admonished him and he played with clay (after his time out) while I finished attempting to set up.

After awhile, the other younger children came to play with Andrew. General silly3 and 5 year old behavior ensued. Soon they were running in circles in a small area near my table, away from others. Someone walked by and said that Andrew needed to stop running. There were two other children present.

At this point I took of my costume, packed up my belongings and I left, but not before talking to the director who said that the others words were in jest. Well, ha. ha. I don't see the humor in the situation.

Since we arrived all that I heard was Andrew, Andrew, Andrew.

Before others arrived Andrew was standing at my table playing with a portion of clay that I set out for him. Someone walked by and said. "What is Andrew doing with the clay, is he wasting it?"

A short while later someone said, "Oh you have to keep an eye on that Andrew".

Then a statement was made about beating children.


I would never begin to think that my son is perfect or refuse to believe that he is in the wrong. Andrew is three, and what he does not know or not remember, I must teach or reinforce.

Andrew attends PK, and not once have a received a negative report from his teachers, and there are parents who have. I ask about his behavior and his teachers reply that his wrongs are age appropriate and with consistent reinforcement they will go away. Andrew's busy nature is never a negative, but a plus. His school friends parents have talked about how well behaved he is, and they see his good and bad days.

I am tired of him being greeted with negativity in our place of worship. This is my month to teach, but I have already spoken with the lead parent (another friend)) and informed her that she will have to find a replacement for the remainder of the month.

Either I will teach my child at home until he is older, or I will find a church that caters to children. My husband objects and says that he will take him, so that Andrew can see his friends, but I don't see how that will remedy the situation.

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I have been in your shoes, my dd is spirited. She has no problems in PS but she is not a kid who will sit for hours...yesterday was the Christmas Pageant and it was a miracle we made it through the service. Normally she is in the PS Sunday school class but there was no class since most kids were in the pagaent. (she would have been in it but IMO was too hyper during the rehearsal so I pulled her out)

When we were looking for a church home we took a pass on several churches that IMO did not have a realistic clue about kids and offer appropriate kids programming. I got tired of folks gently mentioning that a spanking would work ....

If I were you I would either take a break from church until he is older, or maybe you and your dh can switch off weekends so one goes one week the other next and Andrew stays home. Or I would look for a new place.

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I never get any notice that there are new posts here so I'm glad I popped in.

Lisa I have nothing to add to the sage advice already given & agree wholeheartedly that your friend is lucky to have you in her life.

Shay, I can only imagine how exciting and a little bit anxious I'll be when its time for my kiddos to send out college apps. I'm hopeful that one of them will go to my alma mater but time willl tell on that front.

AndrewsMother, I'm sorry that your church is a difficult fit for your family as a whole. As a small child my husband was one of the quiet, "well behaved" crowd and hated every minute of it. His family went to several churches that weren't particularly child friendly & even though he went with the flow at the time, it had an enormous negative impact on him.

Gearing up for the holidays is fun but very low key for us. Normally we travel to visit family but we're not even doing that this year. I adore Christmas activities and always spend the bulk of our gift money on doing things, I'd rather take us somplace than buy something. I'm happy now that my kids are old enough to also have memories of our little adventures.

This year we're going New England in the spring so I'm prepping for that & all the $$$ it will cost. But I love to plan, (in a former life I was an event planner) so I'm in my element finding flights, hotels & tickets on the cheap

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This year we're going New England in the spring so I'm prepping for that & all the $$$ it will cost. But I love to plan, (in a former life I was an event planner) so I'm in my element finding flights, hotels & tickets on the cheap

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Where in New England will you be? I am in Maine and its a gorgeous place, actually of northern New England is scenic.

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...This year we're going New England in the spring so I'm prepping for that & all the $$$ it will cost. But I love to plan, (in a former life I was an event planner) so I'm in my element finding flights, hotels & tickets on the cheap

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And we are in Connecticut(almost equal distance from NYC and Boston), maybe we should try to schedule an MDC Mom's of color meetup some where while you are here in New England Kia!

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I have been in your shoes, my dd is spirited. She has no problems in PS but she is not a kid who will sit for hours...yesterday was the Christmas Pageant and it was a miracle we made it through the service. Normally she is in the PS Sunday school class but there was no class since most kids were in the pagaent. (she would have been in it but IMO was too hyper during the rehearsal so I pulled her out)

When we were looking for a church home we took a pass on several churches that IMO did not have a realistic clue about kids and offer appropriate kids programming. I got tired of folks gently mentioning that a spanking would work ....

If I were you I would either take a break from church until he is older, or maybe you and your dh can switch off weekends so one goes one week the other next and Andrew stays home. Or I would look for a new place.
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AndrewsMother, I'm sorry that your church is a difficult fit for your family as a whole. As a small child my husband was one of the quiet, "well behaved" crowd and hated every minute of it. His family went to several churches that weren't particularly child friendly & even though he went with the flow at the time, it had an enormous negative impact on him.

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We have decided to take a break from this church and even evaluate a few friendships. Once DH overheard a phone conversation his opinion of the situation changed.

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Shay, we are going to ME. I vacationed there a lot as a kid & ended up going to college in Brunswick (30 minutes N of Portland) We are going to visit my alma mater and head North either to Mt Desert or Cranberry... I have to keep in mind that April/May in the South is a far cry from temps in your neck of the woods I'm trying to decide if we are going to fly thru Bost0n or Portland. Either way will keep you & Erika posted

Andrewsmother from what you have shared I think its a wise decision to take some time off of that particular church. I hope you all find the perfect spiritual home soon.
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Kia, I would come here in May. April is still pretty iffy as to whether or not it will feel like spring. We moved here March 02 and I was shocked when we got a huge snowstorm in April. I am from the midwest and used to cold and snow but normally April means spring and in Maine that is not true at all.

This year winter has been slow coming especially along the coast so I would count on lousy weather in April. You can most likely get better prices coming into Boston but you have to battle Boston traffic, though sometimes you can get a good deal. Only downside is if there is bad weather the Jetport seems to cancel and delay flights more often than bigger airports which is why we avoid using the Jetport in cold weather months.

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Kia, I would come here in May. April is still pretty iffy as to whether or not it will feel like spring. We moved here March 02 and I was shocked when we got a huge snowstorm in April. I am from the midwest and used to cold and snow but normally April means spring and in Maine that is not true at all.

This year winter has been slow coming especially along the coast so I would count on lousy weather in April. You can most likely get better prices coming into Boston but you have to battle Boston traffic, though sometimes you can get a good deal. Only downside is if there is bad weather the Jetport seems to cancel and delay flights more often than bigger airports which is why we avoid using the Jetport in cold weather months.
Weather wise May makes more sense but there are a couple of other things going on that might make April the only possible time. And yes I know to be prepared for anything! My family still talks about the big stadium blankets that were handed out during my Memorial Day graduation
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Mixed!

Speaking of, I was in Target last week and saw these books for the first time. Has anyone read them?
I'm late to the conversation, as usual...
Anyway, that looks interesting to me. The character will be a mix of what my son is and our soon-to-be daughter will be. I'm curious about it.

As for the term "mixed", I can't recall knowing anyone being offended by it, but of course, I don't know everyone, do I? I personally don't mind it myself. It's a more apt description than "mulatto" (which is very offensive) for someone like me or my son. I have referred to myself as "a mix of" whatever in the past.

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We have decided to take a break from this church and even evaluate a few friendships. Once DH overheard a phone conversation his opinion of the situation changed.
Great idea, AndrewsMother.



I would have difficulty spending time with people who are so ready to place my child in the "bad kid" box, or people who openly challenge my parenting choices. How I discipline my child is my business and no one else's.

Andrew sounds like he plays and behaves like any other child his age would play and behave.

I'm sorry this happened.

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I'm working on my book. It's going well, considering that I have to take a break every few minutes from the screen or I start to get dizzy. I've been sick for the past few weeks and that's not going well. Life is as busy and crazy as always around here. At least we have snow, which looks pretty and makes the cold a lot more tolerable.

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Great idea, AndrewsMother.



I would have difficulty spending time with people who are so ready to place my child in the "bad kid" box, or people who openly challenge my parenting choices. How I discipline my child is my business and no one else's.

Andrew sounds like he plays and behaves like any other child his age would play and behave.

I'm sorry this happened.
Shelia, I always laughed when I read the posts of MDC moms who wanted to end friendships with their spanking mom friends. Yes, I inwardly wince at some of the spankings that their children receive, but I never questioned their parenting. As I type, a furry grows in me because supposedly, according to some, the Bible is their justification.

For the life of me, I refuse to believe that the same Jesus who "suffered the little children to come unto him", would inflict pain excessive pain upon a child.

Anyway, we attended a birthday party of a child who attends the church, Her parents are very AP but have probably never even heard the term, along with a few others. No one who was in attendance was in the "anti-Andrew" camp.

As I watched the children who ranged in age from 1 1/2 to 10 play together, loud and boisterous but not quite as rough as last week, it reinforced my belief that my child is not the problem.

I feel bad because I know that I have lost a friend, or I that the friendship will never be the same. Somehow, I don't think that I can share a part of me with someone who is openly critical of my parenting.

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Hello Everyone,

I just wanted to say:

I wish for you and yours a very Happy Holiday Season and a bright and prosperous 2010!

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Happy New Year to all of you.
I had a super fantastic holiday. Mike and I spent nearly two weeks together , in and around Washington, DC,with his family. It was whirlwind and I am paying the price with exhaustion. Coming back to Delaware and work was sooo hard. We're going to NYC next weekend in an attempt to beat back the winter doldrums. Other than riding off the high from the holidays, things are fairly status quo.
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New to this forum and looking forward to spending some time with good people. May this new year bring good health and much happiness to you and yours....
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Hey ladies! Happy New Year! I have been lurking about on this thread; life has just been so busy lately with the holidays and keeping up with my little guy. He will be 15 months in a couple of weeks and his 6th tooth is coming in! Time is flying by; it's hard to believe that he's running around and talking! Anyway, I hope everyone is enjoying 2010 thus far!
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Happy New Year ladies! Im still here, 2010 is bringing in some change. Hubby finally landed a job the other day after being unemployed after a lay off for 11 months! W00T!!! However, my job is moving and Im not sure they will ask me to go with them, so i may be laid off this year. But Im not sad about it, because ive been working on my own business and I am REALLY excited about the possibility to do it fulltime much sooner than I thought!

Hubby and I are just really excited that we get to catch up on our delinquent finances, get my biz going and possibly move to Dallas, TX this year (if not this year, then next year). Once we move to Dallas, we will probably start TTC then.

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Happy New Year, ladies...belatedly! I've been lurking too and usually only able to type with one hand but I have two hands available at the moment so I'm taking full advantage. 2010 is my year of focusing on social action. I have some ideas and projects in mind. So I plan to be busy in a good way. I have a new blog that I want to get going soon in order to promote breastfeeding and show that it is something that black moms do. Feel free to PM me if you're interested (I don't want to violate any MDC guidelines).

Brown Lioness, Congrats on the hubby finding a new job! I've been laid off before (not as long as your hubby though) so I know how that goes. I hope your biz takes off!

Welcome ginsengmom!

Eilonwy, I hope everything is ok!

I hope everyone is doing well and prospering.
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Thank you kindly! Blessings on your new blog and projects!


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Happy New Year, ladies...belatedly! I've been lurking too and usually only able to type with one hand but I have two hands available at the moment so I'm taking full advantage. 2010 is my year of focusing on social action. I have some ideas and projects in mind. So I plan to be busy in a good way. I have a new blog that I want to get going soon in order to promote breastfeeding and show that it is something that black moms do. Feel free to PM me if you're interested (I don't want to violate any MDC guidelines).

Brown Lioness, Congrats on the hubby finding a new job! I've been laid off before (not as long as your hubby though) so I know how that goes. I hope your biz takes off!

Welcome ginsengmom!

Eilonwy, I hope everything is ok!

I hope everyone is doing well and prospering.

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Congrats, Erika.

I'm sick. I've been sick since shortly after Thanksgiving, and it sucks royally. I've been doing a bit better, but I have to take pills every day in order to eat at all. The up side of this is that I lost about 15 pounds (maybe more ), but of course... I like eating! The worst part has been having no energy to deal with anything, but still being unable to sleep. Blech. I've been arguing with myself about it this whole time. Anyway, the doctors have no idea what's wrong, but apparently a lot of people have been having this problem lately-- severe nausea and vomiting that just won't go away. Yuck yuck yuck. I know I'm not contagious, but it's still gross and I still don't want to go anywhere (not that I have much choice).

Rynna, Mama to Bean (8), Boobah (6), Bella (4) and Bear (2)
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