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#181 of 203 Old 04-10-2013, 04:52 AM
 
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I feel like an invisible poster in real life lately. I need some friends. Seems like most of the AP moms in my area are snobby and judgemental.

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I definitely need some irl friends.  But online friends would be nice too.  In addition to invisible, I also feel isolated and alone.  It sucks.


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I definitely need some irl friends.  But online friends would be nice too.  In addition to invisible, I also feel isolated and alone.  It sucks.

hug.gif I know the feeling. And hug.gif also to any other mamas feeling the same. Anyone looking to chat, just pm me; my inbox is always open
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Naz I was talking about in my town, not on the internet. and I do consider MDC  moms friends grouphug.gif


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trekkingirl- I know. I can never understand people that are snobby and judgemental anywhere!

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I feel like an invisible poster in real life lately. I need some friends. Seems like most of the AP moms in my area are snobby and judgemental.

I do too! Only in my case there are no AP moms close by -- they all live in wealthier neighborhoods that we can't afford or in neighborhoods that we wouldn't feel safe in (and still probably couldn't afford, ironically, since Berkeley is not only expensive but also high crime, lol).


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I am truly the invisible poster.  I've tried joining threads, following faithfully, commenting on everyone's posts, then nothing.  Everyone else gets acknowledged and I get nothing.  It makes me sad.

 

I felt like this many times, but it got a little better. Now, there are a few people who notice, but I don't post as much as I did a few years ago. I remember giving my opinion or advice on something I knew about, and being totally ignored. I don't think it's on purpose, though.

 

The thing is, Mothering forums is so huge that it is way easy to fall between the cracks. I guess this thread is a sort of "fall between the cracks people" thread.

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Pookie where do you live? I live in Petaluma but spend a lot of time in Marin county


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I am in East Richmond

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I could see that. Nice to have another bay area mama here!


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Invisible poster here. I have almost stopped posting altogether now because its so disheartening to never get recognized! Maybe I'm just too bland, not showing any personality in my posts.

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Jennyanydot- welcome to the club

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Welcome.gifJennyanydot!  


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Haha, thanks! You guys are cracking me up smile.gif

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Sometimes you have to use humor to keep from crying.  

 

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I agree, Matt's mom!

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Hi Jenny! I really like your screen name. It kinda made me smile for some reason.

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Thanks, heyxxmcfly! I can't take credit for creativity- it's from TS Eliot's Old Possum's Book of Practical Cats. I used to read those poems to my daughters smile.gif

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This fits me perfectly!

 

I like to put a positive spin on the threads I've killed.  I take it as my reply was so perfectly written and every argument so eloquently worded that no one else felt the need to contribute and left my post there in all it's glory. 

 

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This fits me perfectly!

I like to put a positive spin on the threads I've killed.  I take it as my reply was so perfectly written and every argument so eloquently worded that no one else felt the need to contribute and left my post there in all it's glory. 

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Lol that must be exactly it wink1.gif we are all simply too eloquent! Talk about making lemonade with a handful of lemons, you just cheered me right up! orngbiggrin.gif
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This fits me perfectly!

 

I like to put a positive spin on the threads I've killed.  I take it as my reply was so perfectly written and every argument so eloquently worded that no one else felt the need to contribute and left my post there in all it's glory. 

 

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