Well, a doctor could tell whether there is an infection, right? I know I sound clueless, but I just don't know what I should be seeing. An uncut infant penis is not something I am familiar with. I will head to the circ board and see if I can get some guidance on how to spot infections and what I should look out for.
In the meantime, I would love recommendations for no-circ / delayed-vax friendly peds in the area! If I must, I will bring the guidelines to my doctor and tell her to stop retracting him, but I would rather work with someone who knows what they are doing on their own.