It's not easy relocating to a new state!
I actually HAVE found several awesome mommas/families who are AP at least...but in my case, it's the Waldorf factor that is harder to come by. If we go South, it's more present, because the school community is near the school. For the AP and Naturally minded family, NH is actually REALLY good IMO. It seems really polarized actually; either the families are more AP OR they are full on spanking, etc...
Just my observation.
MUCH of this area has natural lifestyles though...baby wearing, etc...but PARENTING style and philosophy is another kettle.
We've been here 3 years now, and I'm finally getting the swing of it all, have a few friends, familiar with chunks of the state...and online has made a HUGE difference.
I suggest joining some local groups to the area, and just poke your head in. Facebook helped me a lot.
Feel free to message me too!
Mother of 2 boys, new little one on the way