Just moved to Ste Genevieve myself--about 35miles East of Farmington. I'm surprised to hear you say you've met no other likeminded moms...I thought that there was a La Leche League chapter in Farmington, as well as a health-food store. Isn't that a clear sign of possible friends nearby?!?
Been meaning to get to Farmington soon--when I do, I'll drop you a pm. I'm not a young mom anymore...only have my 12yr left (of six altogether) still at home...but it might be fun to have a visit anyway