We're in central Iowa, a few miles north of Boone to be specific. I'd love to find a good dentist in the area - preferably someone who won't get upset over my not wanting my children (or myself) to receive flouride or unnecessary x-rays.
We'd love to find someone close, in Boone or Ames, but we're willing to travel to Des Moines or elsewhere, up to about an hour away if needed, for a great dentist.
We go to Consamus and Hampton. We have always declined the floride and it was ok. I have let dc have xrays, though... we have had some cavities and I had problems with old fillings from a different dentist. They never push the kids to do anything they are not comfortable with, and it took a couple of visits before either child would let the dentist look in their mouths. I have always felt comfortable there even though I dislike having my teeth worked on.
Not sure if these DDS's are close but would most likely be a good bet towards your wishes.