So I'm going to have a baby and I need to figure out the best way to to tell the father to be. It's very complicated. Does anyone know who to talk to for some advice on telling him? I'd like to tell him soon but it's very important that I do it the right way (whatever that means) and things are clear for us both and my baby will get what he or she needs later on. There is a language barrier,culture difference and yeah...he has a daughter all ready and he may have just married the mother. A few weeks ago I told him I might be pregnant and that didn't go to well.