Update (in case anyone reads this who has the same question): Dr. Crocker is fine. Really nice, mellow guy, seems totally competent and practical. I like that he seems a bit conservative about using drugs/tests/etc. He was completely gaga over my baby, and is definitely pro-extended bf, which is reassuring. Nothing else really came up- he didn't ask me how she was sleeping or seem worried about BLW. My anti-doctor DH even went to see him and really liked him, probably because he praised my DH's good health (he is ridiculously healthy, so he can afford to not like doctors).