I just joined the Mothering community, and saw your post as I was browsing through the forums. I live on San Juan Island, and am a new mom to an almost-3-month-old baby boy. Which island do you live on? Have you been to the baby/toddler groups at the Family Resource Center? I'm finding the family community on the island really amazing and supportive; I hope it's been the same for you! Message me if you'd like to connect more.