Okay, looking for some general information and some ideas...
My dd (7) was exposed to pox last Monday. I count this coming Friday as the first day she'd likely be contagious, or is the first day we might actually see pox? We homeschool aside from the 4 classes she takes at our local "choice school". She takes two classes on Wed and two on Thursday. Three of the four are electives, but I still hate to have her miss any, especially since she may have to miss them the following week.
Do I allow her to go to classes this week and skip next week, even if she shows no signs? I don't know what the right protocal is. I imagine if I asked the school they just might tell me not to come in, I'm afraid to ask. Plenty of kids still get exposed and they don't even know it, going about their regular business until they get sick. She also have gymnastics/dance on Tue and Thursdays.
I've heard it can take anywhere from 10-21 days to incubate. Talk about frustration in waiting. We exposed her both last Monday the 3rd and the 5th to different kids that had it.