Oh I would so love to make love to my husband right now! But I have a few stiches and I can still feel one of them, and I'm still a bit ouchy. The way I figure it the longer I wait the better it will be for both of us. We did get some snuggle time in today, but are both looking forward to the real deal.
I managed to have some sexy time with my DF a few days ago, without messing with my lady bits at all, since I am still having occasional red blood. It felt great to make out (hot, passionate kisses for a loooong time) and then give him pleasure, which helped me feel connected to him in a fully intimate/romantic way which felt so nice after a month of not even one french kiss! I felt so smug and naughty and happy the rest of the day after our little afternoon moment, and I am sure he felt much better too.
I want to see no more red blood at all before we attempt anything, even though my stitches are gone. I am having pain sitting sometimes, as my piles have flared up. :(
We lasted until 4.5 weeks, I really wanted to give my lady parts time to feel totally back to normal and my pp checkup isn't until the 8 week mark and there was no way we were going to wait until that.. And can I say that it was so. MUCH. More INTENSE than usual?? Woah, mama, that was like..... I dunno, like I imagine heroin to be. Tiny bit of pink after, but then when we did it again the next day, no pink after. But then inexplicably, a couple days after that, pink again. I'm so sick of this random light spotting, I just want the whole post partum lochia business to be DONE. grrr.
I'm 4 weeks PP and nowhere near having sex. I'll re-evaluate in 2 weeks, but I think it will have to wait longer than that even. I had fairly significant tearing, and things are still healing.