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|08-03-2009 12:05 PM|
|DreamsInDigital||Annette I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my 5th pregnancy last April and found a lot of support here on MDC. In the real world, people were less than supportive, especially when I made the mistake of saying DH and I would be TTCing as soon as I felt ready. Well thank goodness we didn't listen to them because we now have our sweet baby Lucius who just turned 6 months old. I wish you peace and healing. Take good care of yourself.|
|08-03-2009 11:55 AM|
i'm so sorry for your loss. i lost my fifth at 7 weeks and the comments 'you don't want more do you!' really upset me. and: those that suggested it should be easier to cope with because you already have children
|08-03-2009 01:48 AM|
Annette, I'm so sorry to read that you miscarried. I will be thinking of you, sending thoughts of love and healing for your family.
I remember fearing miscarriage for the first time with my fourth, because I felt subconsciously guilty or something for having another...I feel violently sick too just thinking someone would say that to you, and also because I'm sure someone would have said that to me too. I'm glad you can come here for support, where we all know that you loved that baby and provided a loving family for him, even if briefly.
I do hope you get your rest- do whatever you need to rest. Skullcap tincture works wonders for some people.
|08-01-2009 07:08 PM|
|annettemarie||Thanks so much everyone.|
|08-01-2009 06:36 PM|
|holyhelianthus||I am so so sorry AM!|
|08-01-2009 06:35 PM|
I am so sorry.
Samuel Paul... sleep gently, tiny one.
|08-01-2009 06:32 PM|
|MrsSurplus||AnnetteMarie, I'm so sorry.|
|08-01-2009 06:06 PM|
Oh, I'm so sorry anettemarie.
Take care of eachother.
|08-01-2009 05:02 PM|
|Kidzaplenty||I know I responded in the other thread, but I just had to add a to you, again.|
|08-01-2009 05:02 PM|
I am also so very glad you received so much support and you were able to feel the love from so many other people in your time of need. It's hard to feel such a lose and also feel unsupported on top of it. Please know I have been and will continue to think of you.
|08-01-2009 01:25 PM|
I don't know if there's an August thread, but I wanted to let you all know that we did lose the baby. I'm having a bit of a rough time right this minute, but I did write out what happened here.
I hoped it would make me feel better, but not so much.
Thank you all for the thoughts and prayers. It's very kind of you all, and one positive thing I can say that came out of all this is that I really did feel uplifted and loved by all of my friends, but online and in real life.
|07-31-2009 10:18 PM|
|baltic_ballet||Thinking of you Annettemarie :|
|07-31-2009 07:00 PM|
Oh no, Annette. I'm so sorry. Take care of yourself.
|07-31-2009 05:39 PM|
|SeekingSerenity||AM... I hope the little one stays, and I hope you are well...|
|07-31-2009 05:26 PM|
|AllisonK||Thinking about you AM!!|
|07-31-2009 05:10 PM|
|pixiekisses||AM, thinking about you, how are you?|
|07-31-2009 05:08 PM|
thinking of you
|07-31-2009 04:53 AM|
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|07-30-2009 08:59 PM|
Now what it that?
Can I add...un NEVER!
|07-30-2009 08:57 PM|
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|07-30-2009 06:26 PM|
|orangefoot||annettemarie : from me too. I'll keep you in my thoughts.|
|07-30-2009 06:18 PM|
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|07-30-2009 04:28 PM|
|annettemarie||I'm pretty sure I am losing this baby. Please say a prayer for me.|
|07-30-2009 03:34 PM|
well that didn't even last an hour!
how often is it actually quiet in your homes?
|07-30-2009 02:55 PM|
|fairymom||My house is soooo quiet today- even w/the 4 youngest here! the girls are playing quietly together. ds4 is taking his alloted time on the computer and babe is happily jumping in his jumperoo here by my side. I love times like these- esp because they are so few and far between!|
|07-29-2009 01:23 AM|
|Anglyn||Though DS has commented on the last name issue, he is bonded with his actual father and grandparents, uncles, cousins all with his same name so I guess its ok. I think sometimes he's more overwhelmed than isolated, lo!!|
|07-28-2009 11:08 AM|
in our house we have 4 different last names! the oldest 2 have their dad's last name. the middle 3 have their dad's, and lo has dh's. i still have my father's because dh and i are not legally married- that'll change in oct. my 2 oldest have expressed their wishes as to having their names changed to dh's because they veiw him as their father and want nothing to do w/biodad.dh plans to adopt them later so they'll have their wishess granted- at that point we'll be down to 2 last names. i grew up in a 2 name family. i had my fathers and as did my mom- she kept it till i was grown so i wouldn't be left out- stepdad, sis and bro all had the same.
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