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07-09-2009 07:53 PM
AutumnAir Count me in too!
07-09-2009 04:36 PM
euro I'm a non-flamer too! Sign me up!
05-18-2009 05:52 PM
MittensKittens I'm in!
05-18-2009 02:32 PM
LabileLotus Subbing
03-19-2009 03:46 PM
Meggitty I want to join your tribe, I believe in the same way of living!


Pregnant with new sweet baby due in April, momma to DS (3,) and wifey to DH
02-13-2009 05:33 PM
BennyPai Adding this to my sig! I think it's a great reminder for us all.
01-21-2009 10:31 PM
lovbeingamommy Ok, I just joined and added to my sig. I am in support of positive, supportive conversations that maintain respectfulness for all.
01-11-2009 11:56 PM
loovagreevy .
01-05-2009 08:24 PM
Originally Posted by QueenOfTheMeadow View Post
I am perfectly happy to give support when asked for. I can be honest and true to myself without belittling and hurting someone elses feelings. I will always post with respect and knowledge that I am actually speaking to a real life person with real life feelings.
You said it really well!

I've been on the receiving end of "flame parties" on a different board (I actually left because of constant attacks on my belief system and personal integrity) so I'm totally in!
01-03-2009 08:26 AM
Miss 1928 : Don't we agree not to flame when we sign the UA?
12-26-2008 04:42 PM
brightonwoman hey, what an awesome thread to

And i'm in. i'llh ave to see if i can fit it into my sig.
09-17-2008 09:56 PM
luckysam Love it! I am happy to join! I think respect is the key to joy and peace ::
09-17-2008 09:34 AM
crunchyconmomma I'm certainly in.
I have in years past, been part of flaming and it has always left me worse for the wear.
I have come to a new place in life and seek to promote peace. This most certainly is a promotion of peace. I may never see your face, but I feel your energy and you mine. As one humankind, there are no new thoughts or ideas, so I too have had the ones from you with which I may disagree and I therefore, have no place flaming you for being me.
09-11-2008 02:24 AM
fullhandsfullheart Count me in!
09-07-2008 10:34 AM
Indigo73 I'm in.
08-27-2008 02:26 AM
redsfree Let's choose to focus on our similarities as oppose to our differences. Even if we make different parenting choices, we are all still parents trying to figure out our path and do good by our family. :
06-04-2008 03:17 PM

I've promised myself a long time ago not to flame in posts, because it (kind of) happened to me and even though it was nothing really major, it did hurt. So although I am out of room in my siggy, I still would like to join your tribe!
03-06-2008 08:10 AM
abiyhayil loving parents can be loving people!
03-05-2008 08:42 PM
FREEmom1120 I want to join. I said something mean on a thread yesterday about someone not on MDC, but I've repented now and would like to be considered a non-flamer.
03-04-2008 09:23 AM
kalisis I want to join!
03-04-2008 08:43 AM
Jeanne D'Arc

We need some more non-flaming sisters!
01-31-2008 01:23 PM
RedOakMomma Rock on non-flamers! I'm saving my siggy space for Obama, but I'm definitely a fan of sharing and feeling the love!!
01-15-2008 08:11 PM
Jeanne D'Arc
It is hard isnt it?

I always find myself wanting to flame back a flamer.
And some of us will slip up, just because you flame back doesnt
mean you would be banished from this tribe. If you find yourself
flaming just dust yourself off and recommit

I do think some people need a gentle reprimand now and then , though. :
01-07-2008 03:58 PM
mom2PJS Serenity now. Serenity now. I just had to work really hard to reword something and delete all flaming inuendos so that I could stay in this tribe. Thank you for lending me strength to not flame a flamer, and just lend support to the OP.
01-07-2008 02:13 PM
Dr.Worm I want to join but how come when I tried to click on the link to the thread that started it all it said I don't have permission to see it? WWWAAAHH
01-07-2008 02:06 PM
*LoveBugMama* Fantastic idea!
I`m in!
01-05-2008 10:52 PM
Jeanne D'Arc Just sending a renewal of non-flaming commitment for '08~!!
12-13-2007 05:44 PM
mom2PJS OK it has taken almost a month, but I got my sig right... finally.
12-13-2007 02:34 PM
I agree with lots of what has been said above and love the pp about offering your experiences. Others don't need to necessarily agree, but stating something that happened to you is a nice way to say what you need to without hurting someones feelings.

So many mamas, (and pops) open their hearts on these boards and talk about things they may not be able to in person. I think it is important to feel safe here and know no one is going to say something hurtful.

Great thread!:
12-10-2007 02:32 AM
jsmith2279 I want to join as well! You don't need to be nasty to speak a differing viewpoint!
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