Mothering Forums - Reply to Topic

Thread: I have an overwhelming feeling of dread...Final update #52 Reply to Thread
Title:
Message:
Drag and Drop File Upload
Drag files here to attach!
Upload Progress: 0
Trackback:
Send Trackbacks to (Separate multiple URLs with spaces) :
Post Icons
You may choose an icon for your message from the following list:
 

Register Now

In order to be able to post messages on the Mothering Forums forums, you must first register.
Please enter your desired user name, your email address and other required details in the form below.
User Name:
If you do not want to register, fill this field only and the name will be used as user name for your post.
Password
Please enter a password for your user account. Note that passwords are case-sensitive.
Password:
Confirm Password:
Email Address
Please enter a valid email address for yourself.
Email Address:

Log-in

Human Verification

In order to verify that you are a human and not a spam bot, please enter the answer into the following box below based on the instructions contained in the graphic.



  Additional Options
Miscellaneous Options

  Topic Review (Newest First)
09-12-2008 05:23 PM
russianthistle
be well, guin.
09-11-2008 08:12 PM
veggiemom2004 So sorry mama, best wishes to you and your family!!
09-11-2008 07:32 PM
ShineliketheSon So sorry for what you've had to go through. I am encouraged by reading all these posts about the support you've gotten here. I've had concerns of m/c these last two weeks, telling my 3 year old who is so excited would be so very hard. I said a prayer for you, your husband and your children.:
09-11-2008 06:36 PM
riversong I'm sorry for your loss. From reading your posts, it obvious that you are very intuitive and in tune with your body. I hope you find yourself pregnant again soon.
09-11-2008 01:32 PM
ms.shell I am so sorry, Guin. You will be missed in this ddc. Good luck to you and yours.
09-11-2008 11:34 AM
wirewendy
Quote:
it feels more like the loss of a sweet and beautiful dream, the dream of our next baby
Oh my gosh, that just made me burst into tears. Our babies really are dreams, dreams that float by, until finally one floats down to earth and embraces life. I think of the air today, moist, cool, fresh, the smell of dreams waiting to come true.
09-11-2008 01:55 AM
Carlyle Oh I'm so sorry. I hope the m/c goes as smoothly as it can for you. That sounds stressful. I'm glad that you have such a great intuition though. Good luck on your next ttc!
09-10-2008 06:58 PM
inky leeuhhh im so sorry this happened. good luck on your new ttc journey
09-10-2008 05:56 PM
jkg I'm so sorry. I wish you weren't going through this. Sending you peace and healing...
09-10-2008 05:07 PM
Azreial my thoughts are with you and your family
09-10-2008 03:35 PM
BethSLP
09-10-2008 03:07 PM
starlein26 I'm so sorry, .
09-10-2008 02:42 PM
JenMidwife I'm so sorry for your loss
09-10-2008 01:19 PM
jenholle I'm so very sorry- Take care of yourself!
09-10-2008 12:41 PM
kai28 I'm so sorry Guin, but its good that your trust in your body is still intact. For someone who is so in-tune with herself to think she's loosing that ability must be very frightening, like loosing one of the senses.

Its sounds like a good thing to be proactive about the D&C. Doing always seems easier than waiting for the unknown to me. Treat yourself well.
09-10-2008 12:28 PM
AngelBee How long are you waiting for the D&C?

: for you
09-10-2008 12:22 PM
Polgara1111 I'm so sorry for your loss Guin.

I too had a blighted ovum my first pregnancy. I found out at 8 weeks and began miscarrying at 10 weeks. In hindsight I wish I had gotten the D&C because I bled for 3 weeks straight and then had no period or ovulation for 6 months. i found out later I wasn't supposed to bleed that long. So a D&C at least controls a lot of that.

Take it easy and nurture yourself.
09-10-2008 11:44 AM
darkblue0729 I am so sorry mama, I wish you luck in TTC, and please know that you have my deepest sympathies.
09-10-2008 11:15 AM
racie0417 Guin, I aam sorry that this pregnancy didn't develop and hope you find closure soon so you can pursue your dream again.
09-10-2008 11:09 AM
*Amy* Guin, I am so sorry that you are going through this, but I understand how you are feeling. When I had a blighted ovum, I also felt much less grieved because I knew it never was a "baby."

I hope your D&C or m/c is as easy and painfree as possible for you. I will miss you and be thinking of you in the days to come.
09-10-2008 10:48 AM
honeybunmom I'm sad for your loss, but I can understand how a blighted ovum (I'm guessing this is what you had) can seem like less of a loss than an embryo - but I'm also happy for you that this situation just confirmed your confidence in your God-given sense of "knowing". We should all be so alert as to heed it. Be well!
09-10-2008 10:38 AM
mamato2boys I'm so sorry
09-10-2008 09:56 AM
catballou24 oh guin...i'm so sorry this has happening. i know the disappointment is terrible. you are very strong mama....
09-10-2008 09:37 AM
Degas
Quote:
Originally Posted by Guinevere View Post
In a very odd sort of way I was relieved that the u/s didn't show a hb. B/c if it had, while I still had all this pain and worry and stress, then I would have been deeply confused and would have felt that my instincts were totally wrong. And since my instincts are what saved Sophie's life, I now put a lot more stock into them. Finding out that I had imagined/misinterpreted the dread I spoke of at the beginning of this post would have made me lose a lot of confidence in my ability to read my body. Does that make any sense?
Guin
I understand that - it makes total sense. You are very in tune with your body; you definately need to listen to those instincts.
Mama
You are in my thoughts.
09-10-2008 09:27 AM
michanders4 I am so sorry. Please take care of yourself and keep us updated on your new journey to conceive.
09-10-2008 07:54 AM
djoy I'm so sorry to hear the news. to you. I am in awe of your ability to read your body. "See" you soon!
09-10-2008 06:09 AM
smartycat I'm so sorry Guin.
09-10-2008 01:56 AM
MelW I'm so sorry, Guin. I'm glad that you trusted your instincts and are hoping okay. Be gentle with yourself and take care
09-10-2008 01:25 AM
Asher I'm so sorry. s
09-10-2008 01:11 AM
trimestersdoula Oh, hun, I am so sorry! I was really REALLY hoping that everything was fine. What you are saying about your intuition, gut feeling, instincts etc. makes absolute perfect sense. I am sorry about the loss of your pregnancy but sooo happy that you were right on and knew exactly what was going on. Best wishes to you, mama. I hope you get a new hope very soon.

I read a story once where a little child told its mother after her miscarriage that it was ok because that baby that was supposed to come wasn't ready. The next time she gets pregnant that baby is first in line to come to this world.
This thread has more than 30 replies. Click here to review the whole thread.

Posting Rules  
You may post new threads
You may post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off