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Yesterday 06:18 PM
Kels08 Local ER is beginning to get to know us by face. Son was admitted into the hospital he had a seizure while taking a shower fell hit his head and almost drown if it isn't one thing it is another.
09-13-2014 11:38 PM
Kels08
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Son won't leave his girlfriends side this weekend and has been waiting on her hand and foot.
The accident sounds terrible, but what I quoted sounds positive. Has your son been doing better on the meds? I am hoping that if he is capable of waiting on her and taking care of her, that it means that his seizures are lessening and the fatigue and other side effects is also going down.

Amy
His seizures have been down but he is still really fatigued but he is fighting it.
09-13-2014 09:50 PM
AAK
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Son won't leave his girlfriends side this weekend and has been waiting on her hand and foot.
The accident sounds terrible, but what I quoted sounds positive. Has your son been doing better on the meds? I am hoping that if he is capable of waiting on her and taking care of her, that it means that his seizures are lessening and the fatigue and other side effects is also going down.

Amy
09-13-2014 09:04 PM
Kels08 Son won't leave his girlfriends side this weekend and has been waiting on her hand and foot.
09-13-2014 10:44 AM
Kels08 Thanks son was honestly terrified that she was hurt or lost the baby.
09-13-2014 07:58 AM
AAK
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My son called me sobbing saying his girlfriend is in the hospital. She was in a car wreck. She and the fetus are fine.
I am glad to hear that everyone is fine. When it rains, it pours. . . hopefully you will look back at 2014 and fondly remember it as a year that made you stronger and closer as a family.

Amy
09-12-2014 09:19 PM
SparklePony Certainly is a whole lot going on with you and your family... hope all is well....
09-12-2014 06:53 PM
heyxxmcfly I'm sending prayers. I hope everything works out *hugs*
09-12-2014 01:26 PM
Kels08 My son called me sobbing saying his girlfriend is in the hospital. She was in a car wreck. She and the fetus are fine.
09-12-2014 10:56 AM
AAK
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His girlfriend is getting so hormonal he called me and asked me if it was normal.
I think that is the most normal part of your lives right now!


Amy
09-11-2014 12:30 PM
Kels08 His girlfriend is getting so hormonal he called me and asked me if it was normal.
09-10-2014 03:06 PM
katelove
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I would talk to him about not having his girlfriend over while he is in charge of your younger child. Imagine if your daughter had been the one to walk in on your son and his GF having sex instead of you? or what if your daughter already knows this is going on. This is what your son is teaching to your daughter at a very young age. Not to mention if this GF of his gets pregnant then your family will be supporting a grandchild and they may not last long term as a couple, as most teenage lovers do not last long term and if they do marry they have a higher chance of divorcing.

I personally wouldn't condone my children having sex in my home, ever. They can find places to have sex. I was a teenager once and had sex before 18 and you have to be clever but you can find a place if you really wanna do it. My oldest son is 19 and there's no way I'd allow it and he knows better than to do it anyway. He has always been mature for his age.

I'm guessing you only read the first post ;-)


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09-10-2014 03:00 PM
Kels08 Much better day today he has been able to stay awake and actually interact with his girlfriend which she has been missing last week or so he said feels like a blur.
09-10-2014 02:19 PM
mommy68
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They are both the same age. I had a talk with him this morning and i un-grounded him. He also said she is on BC.

But it is YOUR house and you do not have to allow children to have sex in your home, especially when they are in charge of a younger child at the same time. If they are going to BE adults and have sex to begin with then they need to learn how to find places to have sex on their own and not use your home as a motel.

And he needs to use a condom. Girls will miss pills and sometimes they do it on purpose. I'm sorry but girls do screw around on guys. I had plenty of friends that did it. In fact, my best friend fooled her first boyfriend in to believing she was a virgin and had sex with another boy long before him. I can't believe how naive the parents on here are. It baffles my mind. Yes sex happens! Yes our children are having sex as teenagers sometimes, but no you do not have to allow it inside your home and can tell them to take it elsewhere and you do need to discuss with your son being responsible for himself and not trusting a girl to keep herself from getting pregnant, not to mention an STD from another boy she is boinking on other days of the week. Again, if they want to behave and do adult things then they need to act like adults when they do it.
09-10-2014 02:15 PM
mommy68
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I am a Single mom have been for a few years well i have two kids a 17 year old son and a 10 year old daughter. Well my son has been with his girlfriend for the better part of 4 years a long time for teenagers and proud of the both of them. Well during the summer and school year i have always trusted my son to watch his little sister. Because i tend to work till about 5-7Pm give or take. Well the other night while he was supposed to be watching his sister i got home earlier then i thought and my daughter was watching TV which is pretty normal so i went upstairs to find my son and walked in on him and his girlfriend having sex. I am not entirely sure what to do about this i have been thinking about telling her parents i haven't talked to my son yet about it yet either, other then grounding him for a while until i deal with this. What should i do? Any advice is welcome.
I would talk to him about not having his girlfriend over while he is in charge of your younger child. Imagine if your daughter had been the one to walk in on your son and his GF having sex instead of you? or what if your daughter already knows this is going on. This is what your son is teaching to your daughter at a very young age. Not to mention if this GF of his gets pregnant then your family will be supporting a grandchild and they may not last long term as a couple, as most teenage lovers do not last long term and if they do marry they have a higher chance of divorcing.

I personally wouldn't condone my children having sex in my home, ever. They can find places to have sex. I was a teenager once and had sex before 18 and you have to be clever but you can find a place if you really wanna do it. My oldest son is 19 and there's no way I'd allow it and he knows better than to do it anyway. He has always been mature for his age.
09-10-2014 12:18 AM
MadameXCupcake I'm sorry you are going through so much! My little guy had seizures for awhile but nothing like what you are going through. What about getting your hands on CBD to try? I have watched a few documentaries where it helped for seizures, even when nothing else did. It seems the meds aren't helping much and are making him extremely exhausted. It might be worth a try, I am not sure what state you are in?
09-09-2014 06:41 PM
SunshineRocket
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What is he on, that's producing drowsiness that's verging on unconsciousness, and why is his dosage being changed without testing his serum levels? It sounds a little "off" to me.

Miranda
Yeah, something is not right here.
09-09-2014 03:25 PM
Kels08 Well it's either higher dose or seizures. He is on a combination of meds his nuro said the drowsiness should wear off by this weekend.
09-09-2014 03:07 PM
moominmamma What is he on, that's producing drowsiness that's verging on unconsciousness, and why is his dosage being changed without testing his serum levels? It sounds a little "off" to me.

Miranda
09-09-2014 10:27 AM
Kels08 Son told me this morning he wants to go back to school then feel asleep. I can't send him like this.
09-09-2014 06:38 AM
lalalovely I've been following this thread and I want to say that I am praying for your son during this difficult time. I wasn't going to contribute to the conversation, but I wanted to let you know, in case you haven't found out already, that it is normal to be very sore after having a seizure. My husband has had one, it was the scariest experience, and he was sore for a few days afterward. I hope everything works out for you, and soon!
09-08-2014 06:54 PM
Kels08 Trauma and stress was the given reason. And only the nuro.
09-08-2014 06:39 PM
meemee are they still trying to find out why he is having these seizures?

are they running some tests on him?

do you need to go see a specialist apart from the nuro?

do you feel like you need a second opinion?

gosh this would scare me a LOT. he is at a point where he cant even really function. falling asleep in the middle of a shower is scary.
09-08-2014 04:01 PM
Kels08 His girlfriend is doing really well so far all things considered. Actually amazed that she is sticking by my son like she has been. Tonight she needed some help with my son though he was Taking a shower and started to fall asleep standing up she has to hold him up so he wouldn't Crack his head open.
09-08-2014 10:20 AM
Kels08 His nuro upped his meds a little more today.
09-07-2014 06:03 PM
Kels08 Great why would they even try to have sex when he is having these seizures and sleeping so much. He had a bad one while they ya know.
09-06-2014 08:40 PM
Kels08 She saw her OBYGN on wensday and is on prenatals. She is two months pregnant and healthy as can be. She has been stressing badly on Friday she was in tears thinking my son had drown in the tub.
09-06-2014 07:09 PM
AAK How is the girlfriend doing? I imagine that the seizures are causing her stress as well. Has she seen a doctor/midwife yet? Is she taking care of herself--it is easy to forget about yourself when you are worried about someone close to you.

Amy
09-05-2014 06:29 PM
Kels08 I need to call his nuro and find out if it's normal to be really sore after a seizure he cried after a seizure tonight and said he hurt all over.
09-05-2014 04:05 PM
Kels08 Yeah i told him when he is this lethargic not to shower bathe when home by himself he could of drowned.just really happy his girlfriend found him. I picked up some ensure.
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