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Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-11-2008, 04:10 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 1,025
Posted By Soundhunter
Often when my just-days-away-from-5 yr old DD...

Often when my just-days-away-from-5 yr old DD tunes me out it's because I'm being too bossy and annoying in general, so I think I come across as a wa-wa speaking adult ala Charlie Brown. It's...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-11-2008, 04:01 AM
Replies: 528
Views: 26,266
Posted By Soundhunter
allgirls, that's beautiful, how you handled...

allgirls, that's beautiful, how you handled things with your 13 yr old. When I was 13 they clamped down on me, and drove me right away, I ran away to be a street kid and never returned, it was a...
Forum: Breastfeeding   09-10-2008, 03:07 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 171
Posted By Soundhunter
I sleep with three of them now and they've all...

I sleep with three of them now and they've all had to rearrange how they fall asleep somewhat to accomodate each other. When I went from one to two the oldest had to learn not be be spooned to sleep...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-10-2008, 02:50 AM
Replies: 31
Views: 1,825
Posted By Soundhunter
I wish I had answers, what a difficult situation...

I wish I had answers, what a difficult situation this has to be for all three of you. http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/crap.gif My heart and best wishes go to you guys, I hope...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   10-22-2007, 03:15 AM
Replies: 32
Views: 2,693
Posted By Soundhunter
Quote: Originally Posted by Stace...

Quote:
Originally Posted by Stace http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/9501579)
Touch up paint isn't very expensive. You can go...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   10-02-2007, 05:48 PM
Replies: 28
Views: 1,335
Posted By Soundhunter
I have found with two daughters through this...

I have found with two daughters through this phase, that under-reacting works best. If you give them a big dramatic reaction of any kind, I think it actually arouses their curioisty and inspires...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-20-2007, 06:49 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 423
Posted By Soundhunter
It's not the same thing as P.E.T., though...

It's not the same thing as P.E.T., though there's a Thomas COBB involved, not Gordon. It sounds kind of sketchy to me, if you read the bottom of this page http://www.lifematters.com/step.asp ,...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-08-2007, 10:14 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,107
Posted By Soundhunter
Quote: Originally Posted by transformed...

Quote:
Originally Posted by transformed http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/9123676)
Woah, if it were me I'd be thinking "Good!...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   09-08-2007, 05:51 PM
Replies: 32
Views: 1,107
Posted By Soundhunter
SOP=secret of parenting by Anthony Wolfe I...

SOP=secret of parenting by Anthony Wolfe

I think the SOP methods would be one of the two following examples

-> You say "Son, please pick up a specified toy, or specified assortment of toys"
...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   08-18-2007, 05:51 AM
Replies: 62
Views: 3,162
Posted By Soundhunter
I haven't read all of the responses, but thought...

I haven't read all of the responses, but thought I'd comment on her age. I read the book "When Anger Hurts Your Kids" and it had a page detailing what is most frustrating about kids broken down by...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   08-17-2007, 12:57 AM
Replies: 150
Views: 5,670
Posted By Soundhunter
just off chance, her name isn't betty by any...

just off chance, her name isn't betty by any chance is it? I know a child psychologist on another board who sounds like this.
Forum: Gentle Discipline   08-15-2007, 12:33 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 273
Posted By Soundhunter
I grew up with a lot of abuse, physically and...

I grew up with a lot of abuse, physically and severe emotional abuse.

It was kindness from a few outsiders who cared that I think back of with tears, gratitude that my entire childhood wasn't...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   07-05-2007, 03:58 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 624
Posted By Soundhunter
I think that you should move, but not because...

I think that you should move, but not because the other mom is wrong. I've been on her end before, feeling very sensitive about a more aggressive child being rough with my daughter, it was...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   06-28-2007, 02:54 AM
Replies: 73
Views: 9,709
Posted By Soundhunter
wow, brilliantly written!!!

wow, brilliantly written!!!
Forum: Gentle Discipline   06-14-2007, 03:33 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 332
Posted By Soundhunter
Also, our 2 are 3 years apart, and this past...

Also, our 2 are 3 years apart, and this past year has been one of the hardest times of my life with regards to confronting my own anger and temper issues, because Emma was extremely challenging...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   06-14-2007, 03:21 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 332
Posted By Soundhunter
There's a number of very AP friendly therapists...

There's a number of very AP friendly therapists who do phone counselling, Naomi Aldort and Jan hunt are two, google them for contact info if you feel you need the support ASAP.
Forum: Gentle Discipline   05-06-2007, 02:21 AM
Replies: 36
Views: 1,155
Posted By Soundhunter
Deva, I'm so where you are. I'm not planning on...

Deva, I'm so where you are. I'm not planning on going comletely CL, though I have been focusing on an increasingly consensual household, but when it comes down to it neither DH nor I see it as wrong...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   05-03-2007, 01:51 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 339
Posted By Soundhunter
Looks very intriguing!

Looks very intriguing!
Forum: Gentle Discipline   04-15-2007, 02:57 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 424
Posted By Soundhunter
Quote: Originally Posted by mammal_mama...

Quote:
Originally Posted by mammal_mama http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/7847806)
According to Alfie Kohn, the least harmful...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   04-05-2007, 05:36 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 305
Posted By Soundhunter
A recurring theme around here, and everywhere...

A recurring theme around here, and everywhere where parents are are conversations about parents losing it on their kids and regretting it after. I know some of you never yell at your kids and that's...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   04-04-2007, 11:38 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,247
Posted By Soundhunter
Quote: Originally Posted by mike...

Quote:
Originally Posted by mike http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/forum/post/7756167)
I have interest in this because my mother, and...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   03-23-2007, 02:56 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 530
Posted By Soundhunter
Yeah Georgia, our almost 8 month old daughter is...

Yeah Georgia, our almost 8 month old daughter is very close to crawling, and I know as soon as she's mobile all she's going to want to do is follow Emma around, which is going to piss Emma off...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   03-20-2007, 02:10 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 591
Posted By Soundhunter
the hard part of ending the relationship is that...

the hard part of ending the relationship is that if custody is shared, he'll have his own way with discipline, with no mom around to mediate, which could make things worse for the kids? Perhaps a...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   03-05-2007, 04:08 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,247
Posted By Soundhunter
This shrink has an interest in children of...

This shrink has an interest in children of narcissistic parents, has written some excellent articles on the subject (http://www.voicelessness.com/essay.html) including how to prevent narcissistic...
Forum: Gentle Discipline   03-04-2007, 04:46 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 2,247
Posted By Soundhunter
I don't understand this post, is there supposed...

I don't understand this post, is there supposed to be a link with permissive parenting to narcissism? Is there a missing link in this post or something?

I have interest in this because my mother,...
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