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Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   Today, 03:10 AM
Replies: 2
Views: 193
Posted By greenemami
Yes to everything VM said above. You do not...

Yes to everything VM said above.

You do not actually have to take on the responsibility of being "mother" to your sd when she is there. Of course you can and should continue being a caring and...
Forum: Single Parenting   Today, 02:47 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 249
Posted By greenemami
I was able to find the "standard" agreement at my...

I was able to find the "standard" agreement at my county's law library. It wasn't available online otherwise, but I could go to the actual library, fill in the blanks on their computer ,and print it...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-25-2014, 11:57 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 249
Posted By greenemami
I'm curious as to why she said that. I'm under...

I'm curious as to why she said that. I'm under the impression that the papers can say pretty much whatever you want, so long as the father agrees (which hopefully he will since he is not involved...
Forum: Single Parenting   08-24-2014, 05:55 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 311
Posted By greenemami
It could be for districting purposes-to prove you...

It could be for districting purposes-to prove you have primary custody and your son should be in that school? I was not required to give custody papers either when registering dd with the district...
Forum: Life With a Baby   08-15-2014, 02:48 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 846
Posted By greenemami
I've worked from home since my oldest was 2 and...

I've worked from home since my oldest was 2 and my youngest's whole life, minus a month of maternity leave :) No childcare minus very sporadic help from their dad when we were together (when I...
Forum: Learning at Home and Beyond   08-14-2014, 12:07 AM
Replies: 12
Views: 874
Posted By greenemami
I'm a single mom homeschooler as well-I have the...

I'm a single mom homeschooler as well-I have the kids majority of the time and do all of the homeschooling. Ex mostly leaves it alone, except to occasionally chime in about his concerns. Dd7 is...
Forum: Texas, Oklahoma, New Mexico   07-16-2014, 06:52 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 316
Posted By greenemami
Yup, technically he has no legal rights if he is...

Yup, technically he has no legal rights if he is not on the BC. He will have to go through the process with the court to file to be added to the BC, which generally involves a paternity test if...
Forum: Stay at Home Parents   07-16-2014, 06:43 AM
Replies: 20
Views: 939
Posted By greenemami
Leaving and struggling will better than living...

Leaving and struggling will better than living with this man. It took my kids getting older and me realizing that they would grow up to mimic mine and ex's relationship to get up the courage to...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   07-15-2014, 02:01 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 347
Posted By greenemami
How long have you and her dad been together? do...

How long have you and her dad been together? do you live together? I wouldn't make any big schedule changes suddenly (with any child, really, not just a step child), but rather introduce small...
Forum: Single Parenting   07-05-2014, 01:01 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 459
Posted By greenemami
An email from him saying he feeds her and keeps...

An email from him saying he feeds her and keeps her safe isn't going to be helpful for him in a custody case. That is the bare minimum he should be doing and of course he is going to claim that, so...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-25-2014, 10:43 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 585
Posted By greenemami
Did you already cancel everything? In thinking...

Did you already cancel everything? In thinking about this, especially if you think you'd like to modify to add a deadline anyway, I think you would be pretty safe to tell ex those 2 weeks do not work...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   06-23-2014, 06:08 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 514
Posted By greenemami
I had kids about those ages in a small...

I had kids about those ages in a small backseat-the oldest was originally in the middle but had to be moved to the side because there was no head rest. IIRC we had the a radius in the middle and an...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   06-17-2014, 06:21 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 555
Posted By greenemami
The mom is still pregnant? You have a very long...

The mom is still pregnant? You have a very long way to go until you need to make that explanation. She will know who her "real" mom is, even if she does end up living with you primarily. The best...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-13-2014, 08:06 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 585
Posted By greenemami
We have a 60 day notification written into the...

We have a 60 day notification written into the agreement for vacation time, for just the reasons you are having issues now-I wanted to be able to schedule vacations and camps. I also let ex know...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-13-2014, 08:03 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 507
Posted By greenemami
I definitely struggle with this too-I have a...

I definitely struggle with this too-I have a similar custody schedule, but it's still really hard for me when they are with their dad-I worry about them a lot, and just flat out miss them!


I...
Forum: Single Parenting   06-07-2014, 10:01 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 759
Posted By greenemami
I think the issue here is that they are deciding...

I think the issue here is that they are deciding custody. If the OP voluntarily gives her ex the kids for the majority of the time, he will be set up very well to get primary custody since that has...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-25-2014, 07:46 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 870
Posted By greenemami
Congratulations to you for finding the strength...

Congratulations to you for finding the strength to leave...that is such a hard decision to make and act on!  It will get easier as time goes on.  I hope your brother is doing okay, but my guess is...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-23-2014, 07:54 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 580
Posted By greenemami
Quote:Originally Posted by...

Quote:Originally Posted by Alpenglow http://www.mothering.com/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif (http://www.mothering.com/community/t/1401963/help#post_17634254)


Do not give him any information...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-19-2014, 06:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 646
Posted By greenemami
We had the opposite situation when ex and I were...

We had the opposite situation when ex and I were still together, our bio kids were there full-time, of course, and dsd was only there EOW plus a day a week.  We definitely struggled over the issue...
Forum: Frugality & Finances   05-19-2014, 06:08 AM
Replies: 25
Views: 1,170
Posted By greenemami
I haven't had cable in years, but we do have...

I haven't had cable in years, but we do have Netflix (just streaming, so 7.99 a month) and a Roku box (I just have the cheapest one which was ~$60.00). The roku box just plugs into the tv like a dvd...
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-18-2014, 12:23 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 301
Posted By greenemami
Quote: 1. Without extenuating circumstances,...

Quote:
1. Without extenuating circumstances, the courts are loathe to change a status quo. If the mother has primary custody, it is likely to stay that way, even in light of a move away.

2....
Forum: Blended and Step Family Parenting   05-18-2014, 12:16 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 419
Posted By greenemami
Oh wow. Just wow.  How awkward for dss and the...

Oh wow. Just wow.  How awkward for dss and the friend.  How did the friend respond?  I can't imagine the friend's parents being cool with him staying for a month and a half with a woman they barely...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-18-2014, 09:05 AM
Replies: 15
Views: 580
Posted By greenemami
I agree that he should have to pay child support...

I agree that he should have to pay child support for his child.  However, I do want to warn you that if you file for child support and name him as the father, the court will establish paternity and...
Forum: Single Parenting   05-12-2014, 08:06 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 172
Posted By greenemami
How is the city (or the area that you might live...

How is the city (or the area that you might live in) safety-wise?  If safety is not a factor, I'd say the city sounds better overall (closer to work, dad's house, potentially your school, plus a...
Forum: Learning at Home and Beyond   05-11-2014, 09:08 PM
Replies: 2
Views: 443
Posted By greenemami
Hmmm...I would probably first try to find out if...

Hmmm...I would probably first try to find out if she was actively trying to teach him the multiplication tables or if she was maybe just making conversation and asked if he knew them, KWIM?  My dd...
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